Every average Joe out there is dying to know how to keep himself from being overcome with self-doubt, anxiety, and the overall fear of "theapproach". Are you one of those frustrated chumps with their dating life stuck in a rut?

Does it feel like there's an invisible barrier keeping you from being truly successful with women? Do you want to know once and for all how to become the cool kind of guy that women can't wait to be with?

When it comes to starting conversations with others, whether it's that hot chick that you want to get to know better (and get her number), or new person who works in the cubacle next to you in work...

...The big key is that you always bring equal or greater energy to the interaction.

Guys have a bad rap when it comes to relationships. Women believe that not only do guys avoid getting into relationships in the first place, but that men are the ones who are most likely to end it.

But the facts show otherwise.

Have you ever watched a playground of children playing?  It's a familiar scene: the boys are running around, shrieking with laughter and shouting, while the girls are sitting quietly in a group discussing the complex social rules of their new game.

Boys and girls play differently, and they carry those communication differences into adulthood.

Why are some men ready to commit immediately ... while other remain "playboy bachelors" forever?

How can you tell if the man you're with is ever going to commit?

Whether you're thirty-plus or reaching retirement, ALL of us consider what the impact of aging will be on our love life. It's impossible to avoid.

We're bombarded with images of lonely spinsters and unattractive maiden aunts. We worry about losing our looks and being passed over by men looking for younger models. We worry about getting set in our ways and dying alone.