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Newsletter 1: Recommended Reading: 6-part attraction mini-course

Subject: Recommended reading: 6 part attraction mini-course Hi {!firstname_fix}, A good friend of mine, Slade Shaw (one of the world's leading female attraction experts), recently wrote a 6 part mini course in how to attract and keep high quality women. I've just finished reading it and I can confirm that it is packed full of killer information. I highly recommend that you download and read it for yourself ASAP: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractwomenmen In particular you'll learn how the mind of women works ... and how to use this knowledge to your advantage! It's a relatively short read but it is packed full of information that I bet you never know about women and the secrets of how to make sure they are fascinated by YOU: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractwomenmen Enjoy! Your Name

Newsletter 2: Special - First 50 only - Fireworks with Females

'Fireworks with Females' Special - First 50 Only Hi {!firstname_fix}, This is a quick 'heads up' to let you know that Slade Shaw, author of 'Fireworks with Females' is running a special offer right now that is exclusive for you my loyal newsletter readers. If you ever wanted to get your issues with women sorted out once and for good, then this is something you should get for yourself right now. This special is only for the first 50 to claim it so check it out as soon as you can: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractwomenspec What is 'Fireworks with Females?' It is a complete guide that teaches you how to enjoy massive success with the kinds of women most men think are impossible to get - the women who are not only PHYSICALLY beautiful, but whose exterior beauty is literally OUTSHONE by the depth, warmth, and beauty of their personality, charm, and femininity. I strongly recommend that you check out the website right now as this is a product that has changed the lives of many men around the world and you could be next. ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractwomenspec Kind regards, YOUR NAME

Newsletter 3: Just 22 left

Just 22 Left ('Fireworks with Females' Special) Hi {!firstname_fix}, This is a quick notice that there are only 22 copies left of 'Fireworks with Females' with the current special bonuses attached. If you ever wanted to get your issues with women sorted out once and for good, then this is something you should get for yourself right now. This special is only for the first 50 (22 left). Check it out as soon as you can: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractwomenspec Kind regards, YOUR NAME

Newsletter 4: How to date a model

Subject: How to Date a Model Ever wonder what's really going on inside a woman's mind? Today you're going to find out... My friend James Bradley has been teaching men how to attract their ideal women since the year 2000, here's his website: ==> http://YOURCLICKBANKID.unicades.hop.clickbank.net/?type=towomen Recently James interviewed a model called sarah from San Diego to uncover what she looks for in guys, what's the one thing a guy could say to her on the street to get her to stop, and what tips she'd give guys who want to know her better. James found that even though she models parttime, her real dream is to become an interior designer and have a boyfriend who's just as ambitious. She's also got a surprising reason why she'd prefer not to meet a guy in a bar or online ... read on! "There's More to Life than Girls" Interview with Sarah - 22, Model/Waitress/Student, California James: Describe yourself. What do you do for a living? What kinds of things do you like to do to relax? Sarah: I'm studying interior design parttime and waitressing and modeling to pay the bills. To relax, I hang out with friends, go shopping, you know, the regular stuff. James: Are you single or seeing anyone? Sarah: I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, so, yeah.... It's really weird being single again. The worst thing is getting hit on all the time. I mean, I'm a waitress, so I'm used to it, but I used to be able to go out with my boyfriend and have a good time without getting bothered by other guys. Now when I go out, it's like ... yuck. Get away from me. James: What mistakes are these guys making? Sarah: Just being too obvious about it, I guess. If I'm out with my friends, I kind of want to hang out with my friends. If a guy comes up to us, we know that he wants to hit on at least one of us. Otherwise, why would he come up? James: So you would never give a guy who came up to you a chance? Sarah: I'm not saying that. Obviously, if he's really cute, I'd at least say hello. I guess I'd rather just meet a guy in a normal place, like through friends or something. Like, I imagine that someday we're going to get married and everyone's going to be asking us how we met. I don't want to say we met in a bar! James: So you'd rather you had a better story to tell. Sarah: Exactly. Like, you know, our eyes met across a crowded room or something. James: What about online dating? Sarah: That would be worse! Could you imagine saying, "We met online"? I know it's more socially accepted these days, but I would personally feel uncomfortable admitting to anyone that I had my profile on a website. And a picture of me - definitely not. People pay to take pictures of me, so I'm not just going to be giving them away. James: How did you meet your last boyfriend? Sarah: Waitressing, actually. He and his friends used to come in every night at eleven o'clock and order breakfast. It was really weird. They always sat in the same place, so I got to know them pretty well. James: Why did you break up? If you're okay about it... Sarah: Oh, yeah, I'm fine. I felt like he wasn't really supporting me. Like, he'd make fun of what I wanted to do. He didn't think I'd ever get a job in interior design and that I was basically wasting my time. You should always support your boyfriend or girlfriend in what they want to do. He wanted me to basically be modeling fulltime, but he has no idea what it's like. James: Did you feel like he was just dating you for your looks? Sarah: Sometimes. He used to refer to me as "my girlfriend the model." I guess "my girlfriend the designer" didn't sound as good to him. James: What are you looking for in a guy now? Sarah: Someone who's funny and really interesting and romantic. My ex used to invite me over and then spend all of his time on the computer. I'm like, "I don't care about your computer. Let's do something." I see this with all my friends' boyfriends. They're more interested in getting pizza and a movie on Saturday night than doing something fun. They're like, "It will cost money." So what? James: So you want someone who isn't boring. Sarah: Yeah, for sure. Someone who actually has a life. That's the great thing with being at school because you're surrounded by people who have these goals. They're working to get somewhere. Compared with my ex-boyfriend and his friends, who just wanted to hang out and have enough money to spend on beer and their cars. James: What would show you that a guy had a life? Sarah: He'd be doing cool things. Like, I don't know, going to different places and have all these different people he knows. That's really attractive: when everyone knows your guy. I dated a guy once who was nicknamed the "Mayor" because everyone knew him. We'd go into, like, a grocery store, and people would be stopping him and saying, "What's up?" That was great. Other things, I guess, would be that he was earning good money, because if you don't have a life you don't have money. I don't feel like I'm there yet, but once I'm an interior designer I'll have enough money for my own apartment and really awesome shoes. Yeah, just doing more than sitting around with his buddies. James: If a guy stopped you on the street right now, what's the one thing he could say to you to make you want to be with him? Sarah: "You're hot, I want you"? Probably not. Not unless the guy was really good-looking. Usually, if a guy stopped me on the street, I'd either think that he needed help or that something was wrong with him, like he wanted money or something. Asking for directions is always good. Especially if it's somewhere close, like I could walk him there. James: How long does it take for you to decide if you want to get to know someone further? Sarah: Usually almost instantly. Sometimes my first impression is wrong, but it's more in terms of, "You're nice to talk to," rather than, "Oh my god, you're so hot." You can tell if a guy has a lot going for him right off the bat. Just stuff like the way he walks, you know, how he smiles, whether he works out.... What really annoys me are the guys who want to meet you, like, they'll think up some clever line like I'm supposed to give them a treat just for coming up to me. No clue that I'm a real person. Sometimes they'll even talk to my clothes, like I'm not even there. I'm saying "clothes," but you know what I mean. Come on, get a grip! James: What tips would you give guys who want to get to know you better? Sarah: Just treat me like a real person. Respect what I want to do. Don't try to get me into bed. Have a life of your own that's actually interesting. There's more to life than computers and music and cars, you know? Oh, and even girls. Yeah, there's more to life than girls. Once you get that, then come back to me. *** Top 5 Tips to Remember *** 1. If you're dating a woman who makes money off her looks, you need to show her that you "get" her life better than she does. Women in high-profile industries, like modeling or acting, often feel like nobody understands what their life is like or how hard it is to be them. You do. Just check out Style's interview of Britney Spears in The Game. Once you show her that you not only "get" her but can even "read" her mind and tell her what she's feeling, she'll be putty in your hands. Never give her the impression that what she does is unusual, high status, or affects you in any way. You're not dating her because she's a model or because she's an actress; you're dating her because she's interesting and she amuses you. 2. Become a regular. Not only does being a regular at a particular bar/coffee shop/cafe/restaurant automatically give you higher status, because the waitstaff will recognize you and give you preferential treatment, but it's a perfect opportunity to network. Especially in L.A., there are a lot of aspiring actresses/musicians/whatever who are putting in their time waiting tables until they make it big. Make their life easier by being the regular they look forward to seeing again. 3. Know people. People who are known by a lot of people are automatically considered higher status. It's just like the most popular guy in school - he was popular because everyone knew who he was or wanted to know him. Make the effort to get to know people, no matter how insignificant they might be. Remember their name and a few details about them, enough to ask about their kids or their job or the trip they just went on. 4. Be learning at least one new skill at all times. As much fun as surfing the net and playing Playstation are, they don't exactly scream "high-status male." Expand your interests and pick up at least one unique hobby. Learn the guitar. Try snowboarding. Up your snob factor with a class in wine appreciation, cooking, or even ballroom dancing. The idea isn't to brag about your interests; it's to expand your knowledge so that when you get invited to the slopes, order wine at a restaurant, or have to attend a black-tie event, you actually know what to do. 5. Give a girl something to talk about to her friends. As much as it may seem like a waste of time to think up creative dates or unusual ways to introduce yourself to a girl, choose something memorable over something practical every time. Women will think about things like how they're going to tell your children you met, even if you barely know one another. Give her experiences that she can relate to her friends, and, even if you end up breaking up, all her friends will want to date you. ******** I hope you enjoyed reading the above article by James Bradley. James has also developed a comprehensive system for training guys to be irresistible to women. I strongly recommend you go and get yourself a copy right here: ==> http://YOURCLICKBANKID.unicades.hop.clickbank.net/?type=towomen Kind regards, YOUR NAME

Newsletter 5: 3 Killer ways to create sexual chemistry

Subject: 3 Killer ways to create sexual chemistry Hey {!firstname_fix}, Attraction + sexual chemistry = FIREWORKS. If you're interested in checking out the ultimate guide to attracting women, get yourself a copy of Fireworks with Females: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=getgirlmen Today's newsletter is a guest newsletter written by seduction expert Slade Shaw. Enjoy!... From: Slade Shaw Hi {!firstname_fix}, Without sexual chemistry, it's hard to keep a high quality women interested for long enough for anything to happen. Let alone for it to be actually a lot of fun for the both of you. But what exactly IS sexual chemistry? Dating and relationships experts seem to throw the phrase around with wild abandon, but what does it MEAN? And how can YOU make it happen with women? Well, a major component is personality compatibility. In other words, you can't create sexual chemistry with women you haven't spoken to yet. It doesn't matter how hot they are, or how much you'd like to get them into bed - you won't know if that attraction is mutual until you actually SPEAK to them. ALERT!! This is when you need to be very aware of the impression you're creating. Fact: you need to create sexual chemistry VERY early in the game. The earlier, the better - that way, you run less of a risk of her getting used to the idea of you as "just a friend". Although you can turn friends into lovers, it's harder to do than simply getting it right from the start. Unless you're interested in spending more time and effort than is strictly necessary, it's best to just do it right straight away. So how DO you create it? I'm going to answer that question by using a real-life example. Stephen, from Wichita, writes: Hi Slade, I don't have any difficulty in speaking to women. I like to think of myself as a confident guy, and I don't worry about approaching girls or initiating conversation, even if they are in a group. But I don't understand how to get them to be attracted to me. They always talk back to me and are polite, but it never seems to go anywhere. For example, I'm always very chatty and friendly with women. I ask them what their names are (and will usually tell them their name is beautiful) and will talk to them about their plans for the evening, what they do for a living, and what kind of stuff they like to get up to on the weekends. I feel that these topics all have a lot of scope for progress - for example, if they mention anything they're interested in that I am also interested in, then clearly we have something in common and I can try to build on that. But it is difficult for me to get women to be attracted to me. They are always very smiley and friendly but things do not often get past this point. Sometimes I will give them my phone number but rarely do I get calls. When I ask for their number, they often tell me that I am a nice guy but they don't think it will work out. A few times I've got a number and called up to make a date, but then been stood up. Please tell me how to intensify things with girls and build on their attraction for me because I feel like I've tried everything that people advise me to do and I'm sick of sleeping alone. - Stephen MY RESPONSE: STEPHEN!! Thank God you wrote in. First of all, BIG MISTAKES: - You are talking about HORRIBLE subjects for flirtation and sexual progression. Learn to flirt. (We'll go into this, don't worry.) - Do you have the slightest idea of what makes a girl attracted to you? Let me tell you, it's not telling her she's got a hot name. That's just giving away your intentions ("I like you") but without ANY incentive for her to return the sentiment. - Building on commonality is a good technique, but in order for it to be effective it must be SUBTLE. It's no good if you're panting with eagerness, shouting, "Hey, you like rock music? OH MY GAAAAAWWD, I love rock music too! Wow, we have so much in common! Let's hang out sometime!!!" For your express benefit, I'm going to break down sexual chemistry into its component parts for you. Creating sexual chemistry is all about doing THREE THINGS: 1. Being a MAN and being YOURSELF. 2. Building rapport. 3. Flirting. First things first ... let's talk about BEING A MAN. Do you know how many guys out there try to get on the good side of girls by being LIKE a girl? This is a HORRIBLE way to act around women. You probably know the kind of guy I'm talking about: he's always really NICE. He places his priority on kissing ass and greasing up to women. He's desperate to be liked. He always asks how girls are and what they've been up to today (and other sorts of boring questions like that). He compliments them on their hair or jewelry, he gives them a hug if they're feeling bad, and he tells them that no, their hipster jeans don't give them a muffin top ... ... instead of doing what he SHOULD, which is saying in an outraged tone, "You're talking about physical flaws ALREADY? What's wrong with you? Don't you know that if we're ever going to get this relationship off the ground, you need to be MYSTERIOUS and SEDUCTIVE?" ... ... and then laughing like hell and winking at them ... ... Basically, he acts like a big GIRL. His priority is BEING NICE, BEING SUPPORTIVE, and NOT PUTTING ANY PRESSURE ON GIRLS (and he doesn't hesitate to TELL them that those things are important to him, too - another HORRIBLE mistake). Now, girls LIKE guys like these. They enjoy their company and have no problems asking them along to hang out, go for coffee, and come over for a night of watching funny movies and eating popcorn. They'll stay up until 5 in the morning looking through photo albums of when she was a little girl, or the time she went on holiday with a group of girlfriends (or, if she really thinks you're a sap, her ex-boyfriend). But these guys do not EVER get asked for sex. Women are just NOT ATTRACTED to them. The guy sticks around, hoping she'll somehow DEVELOP feelings for him on her own ... but instead, he's digging his own sexual grave. Because by being NICE, and giving all the power to HER, and telling her that he'd never put pressure on her and that he'll wait for her for ever (or whatever terrible sappy wording he's using), he's KILLING the attraction. So girls LIKE these guys ... but they're not ATTRACTED to them. Do you know what the secret to overcoming this problem is? It's called BEING A MAN. This means being strong, sticking up for what you want, and respecting your OWN desires. A man doesn't tell a girl that he doesn't want to pressure her (as though she's some kind of delicate flower that he's terrified of hurting with his big scary sexual needs). A MAN knows that women are just as able to feel sexual attraction and desire as they are, and they assume that if THEY'RE feeling "it", then the woman probably is too ... so they act and talk as if this is a given. No acting girly. No platonic movie-watching sessions (men know that when you're under a comforter on the sofa with a girl, movie-time is a PRIME opportunity to get physical). They wouldn't be caught dead giving a girl tips on her outfit, or reassuring her that she looks "pretty". And they'd laugh in the face of anyone who tried to make them look at holiday shots of her and an ex-boyfriend. A WOMAN would do all this for another woman. But a MAN would NEVER do this for a woman he's into. And women KNOW this, too - so if you go along with their little "tests", you're telling them that you're the kind of guy who can be manipulated and bullied. And this MURDERS any possibility for attraction. Women are more attracted to strong, masculine guys than they are to weak, feminine, wishy-washy guys. So don't try to make yourself into the kind of guy that you think women will like, because you'll probably get it wrong. Learn how to be decisive, confident, and strong in your own personality. Hint: being decisive is easy. It's about making snap decisions and not thinking too much about stuff. For example, if you're out with a girl and she asks you what you want to do, you should NEVER, EVER say, "Ohhhh, I don't know. What do YOU feel like doing?" The decisive guy makes quick decisions and articulates them. This is easy to do and will build the right impression in other people's minds. Being your MASCULINE self is a HUGE part of attracting females to you. Someone who is confident and comfortable with their own personality and the way that they relate to people naturally comes across as a confident, enticing, intriguing person. But someone who adopts the mannerisms, opinions, and behaviors of other people has a choice of two HORRIBLE options: they either blend right into the crowd, or come across as a grasping, desperate groveler. Be strong in your own personality. Stick to your own opinions. Learn to disagree with people. You can do it with a laugh, or do it with a poker face. Either way is attractive, can even be funny, and women find it WAY hotter than a guy who shilly-shallies and tries to please them first. Whatever you do, remember that there is nothing less attractive to a female than a man who nods, agrees, and gushes, "You couldn't be more right ... I absolutely agree with what you're saying!" whenever she says anything. Secondly ... let's talk about BUILDING RAPPORT. Rapport simply means that she enjoys talking to you, and feels good about herself when she does it. The best way of building rapport is by talking about silly, inconsequential things, and laughing about it. For example, constructing an "in joke" is a great idea: it gives you and the woman you're talking about a feeling of exclusivity and commonality over others. Let's say you were waiting at the counter for a cute barista to make your coffee. You could say something like, "Well, a recent arrival from Coffee Heaven! How's the espresso machine treating you today, O Cappuccino Goddess?" ... ... to which she might reply with a laugh, "Oh yes, I saw that you guys were in some dire need of expertly made coffee, so I made an appearance here today to bless you all with my divine knowledge and abilities!" Common ground established: you now have a joke that nobody else is a part of. This is the "Us/Them Phenomenon": you've created a snug, cozy little space that aligns the two of you together, apart from the rest of the world. Then, you could carry on the joke by doing other silly things like ... When it's time to hand her your change, you could jump exaggeratedly and make a comment like, "Jesus! You're really real! I didn't know that Goddesses were actually made of flesh ... I expected my hand to go right through you!" From then on, every time you went in there for coffee, you'd have something to talk about, and the barista would associate the sight of you with the fun, silly atmosphere of flirty joking that you'd created. When you act like this, you're making her laugh AND you're making it clear in her mind that you're interested in her sexually. This gets her thinking about you in that way right from the start ... ... which prevents her from slotting you into the "friends" category. Some other ways of building rapport: - Establishing a solid basis of common ground. Although women like men because they're fundamentally different, they still like to find some similarities in outlook, personality, or character as well. This reassures them and makes them feel that you understand them. These similarities can be personality- or lifestyle-based (for example, you're both avid movie buffs, or you both enjoy rock-climbing), but they can also be SITUATIONAL in nature. For example, say you were waiting in line for drinks at the bar ... you could turn to the woman in line behind you and make a funny, sarcastic comment like, "Don't you LOVE waiting in line?" ** pause for response ** "I always find it's such a great opportunity for self-reflection and discovering new things about myself. For example, after all this opportunity for contemplation, I now know beyond a shadow of a doubt that my primary goal in life is to get a gin and tonic." - Mirroring. When your body language subtly matches and reflects the body language of the person you're interested in, it makes them sense on a subconscious, subliminal level that the two of you have a connection. Do this well, and it's really powerful. Do it badly, however, and you'll look like a creepy copy-cat. (For tips on how to use your body language to its full power, check out http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/ .) Thirdly ... let's talk about FLIRTING. The whole idea behind flirting is that it's TOTALLY ILLOGICAL. Ron Louis and David Copeland, authors of "How to Succeed With Women", have a great way of putting it. They suggest that you look at flirting as the best way for adults to relate to one another. You know how little kids relate to each other through play? Well, flirting is how adults play with, and relate to, one another. Flirting with people is how men and women figure out how compatible they're likely to be, and figure out how playful and creative the other person is (which gives them an idea of what that person would be like both as a partner and in bed). Good flirts understand that flirting is about being PLAYFUL, not LOGICAL. When you're flirting with someone, you're most likely not talking about heavy or deeply meaningful subjects. Instead, you're showing that you're a funny, creative, and confident person by being silly, outrageous, and illogical. It might sound weird when you think that talking about nonsense is the best way of creating attraction. But all you have to do is look at Stephen's example to know that I'm telling the truth. Stephen tried to create attraction by logically, reasonably demonstrating to women that he's a nice, caring guy who has things in common with them. Did this work? Well, just ask Stephen why he's writing in to us here if he's got it all sorted. Fact: you CANNOT create a connection with someone by REASONING with them. Ever tried to create a connection with somebody by explaining to them why it's a good idea? Maybe you could try telling them how unreasonable they would be not to be attracted to you, or list all the reasons that you'd make a great partner or lover. Go ahead and try it. I bet you don't need me to tell you what's going to happen, do you? OBVIOUSLY it's not going to work. It's hardly rocket science. Creating attraction and chemistry is all about being PLAYFUL. When you're being playful, you never come right out and say what you mean ... you HINT at it. That's what flirting's all about. For example, telling a woman you think she'd make a really great FRIEND - but saying it with a cheeky, suggestive smile - is much more effective than coming right out and telling her how much you like her. Keep referring to what a great friend she is, how much you value your friendship, and how great it is to finally find a good female friend throughout the rest of the evening. She'll know you're flirting with her - but because she can't be SURE, and because she has to keep guessing at what you actually mean, she'll get really drawn into it and have a great time wondering if you actually DO like her or not. This gives her the scope required to form her own, powerful attraction to YOU. Plus, you'll come across as creative, confident, playful, and sexy. THAT is how you create sexual chemistry. For a comprehensive guide to flirting, building rapport, and creating powerful sexual chemistry and attraction, check out my book below: http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=getgirlmen All the best! Slade Shaw

Newsletter 6: Self Confidence Tips...

Subject: Self Confidence Tips... >>Self confidence is the key to getting your groove when it comes to dating and attraction. I strongly recommend you read this book: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confmen Hi {!firstname_fix}, Today's newsletter is written by reknowned dating and relationships expert, Mirabelle Summers. It's all about self confidence and how to have more of it when you approach women and strike up conversations. Enjoy!... From: Mirabelle Summers Hey {!firstname_fix}, When you're in a bar with your friends and you see this really beautiful girl, what do you end up doing? Do you find yourself chickening out and letting your "more attractive" friend approach her for you, while you just watch them from a distance? Do you ask yourself, "Why oh why do some people always freeze up in front of the people they want to impress the most? And why oh why do I have to be one of those people?" Sometimes the problem lies with something as simple as perspective. We usually freeze up because of the way we look at things, namely three things: 1. the way we look at ourselves, 2. the way we look at the people we're attracted to, 3. and most importantly the way we look at ourselves in relation to the people we're attracted to. Here's the thing: they're human beings just like us. They're not gods or goddesses. They eat, drink, sleep, get sick, and have feelings just like any other human being does. Remember, just because she has perfect bone structure, blood red lips, and deep set eyes, doesn't mean she's a goddess. Yes, she may be beautiful and you probably think you're not as blessed as she is when it comes to looks, but the important thing to remember is that in order for a relationship to work, you need to approach this as equals. In other words, you must believe you have something to bring to the relationship. I'm sure you have a set of achievements--no matter how big or small--that make you just as worthy and attractive as she is. I'm not going to deny that most people consider looks first before anything else. After all, people have to see you before you get to talk to them. But, as a play director told me once, 'Your beauty will only work for five seconds. If you have nothing interesting to say, the audience will lose their interest in you.' And that's true off-stage as well. After five seconds, the way you look won't matter much anymore; it's what you say that will keep her interested. Nobody wants a beautiful, useless object. If you really feel terrible about the way you look, though, and you think it's a major issue that's stopping you from approaching her, then by all means, do something about it! Maximize your appearance! If you're worried about being overweight, then there are a range of different diets, healthy lifestyle choices, or even something as simple as flattering clothing that you can do to minimize its impact and the way it makes you feel. It needn't be something that prevents you from meeting women. Taking care of your body does not necessarily equate to vanity. I'm not advocating you need to become a gym junkie. There's a difference between the two. The first is necessary for your health and your well-being--for you to feel good about yourself. The second one is overdoing it; getting too bulked up to go for the right look is not necessarily better for your health, even if it makes you feel more attractive. If you're worried about being bald or being too short, though, well... the only thing I can tell you is: don't. Don't worry about it. You don't have to look like a super star to attract attention. For every superstar there is a hundred normal guys. That doesn't mean the normal guys strike out, in fact quite the opposite. Many people assume the superstars are out of their range. As long as you like who you are, looking average or having limitations is okay. To maximize your potential however, the next thing you're going to have to work on is your conversational skills. If you want impeccable conversation skills as well as the accompanying winning attitude, you have to check out Slade Shaw's course "Supreme Self Confidence" at: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confmen People who clam up in front of the people they like have certain ways of thinking which actually cause them to freeze. Just by changing these mindsets; you'd be able to talk to a complete stranger more comfortably. The mindset of wanting to impress her more than anything is a giant culprit. The fear of making a mistake or saying something really stupid may just be the very thing that will cause you to make a mistake and say something stupid. If, when approaching someone, all you think about is to do anything and everything to impress her while at the same time thinking about the fear of not reaching this goal, then you've lost it before you've even approached her. Seriously, a great fear like that can eat anyone up! If you're too afraid to make mistakes, how could you even talk or move when you're all too aware that everything you do is an opportunity for blunder? Turn that mindset around. Think about it this way: 1. You're not out to impress. 2. Making a mistake is definitely okay. Right now you're probably thinking, "What do you mean I'm not out to impress? What do you think everybody's doing out there right now? Aren't we all trying to impress each other?" I hate to break it to you, but no. The most successful people out there, whether in dating or in any other field, did not become successful because they were trying to impress. Firstly, they were being themselves. They never tried to be somebody else just to impress. That kind of approach is a lie against you and against the other person. Say, you met this girl who loves to read. You think she's really pretty and cool and fun. Besides, you like to read too. But while she's reading poetry from authors you've never heard before, you're reading A Purpose Driven Life and Tuesdays with Morrie and all other popular authors. So you pretended to like poetry as well and just mimic whatever she says. How long do you think you can put that up? Not long enough to get beyond the second date, I assure you. Even if it worked for the first night, it won't work in the long run. You'd always have to keep a façade in order to maintain that impression she got of you and soon, you'll slip and slip and slip. All those little slips will then add up to create a false impression of you. No matter how neutral that false impression of you is, it's not who you really are. You still pretended to be someone you're not just to have her. Believe me; she wouldn't like that at all. So don't pretend to be someone else in order to impress. It won't get you anywhere at all. Central to your success is believing that the person you are is enough to attract the woman of your dreams. That's why you should check out "Supreme Self Confidence." ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confmen Your best bet is to go out there, meet new people, and have fun. You approach somebody because you like her and because you think she can be fun to be with. You approach somebody because you have something to offer her that she might like. You might be a great match together. You might love the same books and read the same authors. If not, well then, too bad. Differences are nothing to be ashamed of, in fact they may make conversation interesting! Besides, your compatibilities may be in other areas... Remember, self-confidence is infectious, and once you are able to overcome your demons and develop confident and charismatic conversation, you can let your personality and your irresistibility shine. Till next time, Mirabelle Summers P.S. Don't forget that if you're interested in Supreme Self Confidence and Meet Your Sweet, we have got an ENTIRE CATALOG of products at your disposal. MeetYourSweet has a complete library of courses, programs, and books that they've developed to help you get through ANY personal transformation, relationship or intimacy issues that you might be experiencing. Whether you're on the lookout for love, you want to increase your seduction skills with women, you want to put the spark back in your relationship, or you're experiencing troubles in your marriage, MeetYourSweet has got exactly what you need to get the relationship and life of your dreams. 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Newsletter 7: Creating 'Subliminal Attraction'

Subject: Creating 'Subliminal' Attraction Hey {!firstname_fix}, It's YOUR NAME here. Firstly, I wanted to let you know that my good friend Slade Shaw has written the most comprehensive guide on how to be a fantastic conversationalist with women. Check it out: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=conchmen Secondly, today's newsletter is a guest newsletter written by none other than Slade Shaw himself. It's all about 'How to create subliminal attraction' Read on and enjoy!... From: Slade Shaw Subject: Creating 'Subliminal' Attraction Hey, {!firstname_fix}, what's up? Today, it's time to talk about how to connect on a SUBLIMINAL LEVEL with females. More specifically, I'm talking about how to SEEM like an extremely confident guy. Now, clearly this sounds a little at odds with my usual policy. I'm not a big one for 'faking it til you make it', because I think it's pretty easy for women to sense any kind of inauthenticity and be instantly and MASSIVELY turned off by it. It's like a bucket of cold water in the face: any progress you've made so far gets instantly reversed. Another reason I don't tend to advocate the 'fake it til you make it' approach is because there's often a lot of stuff to REMEMBER, and that gets in the way of your ability to relax, get into the momentum of what's happening, and involve yourself intensely in what's happening around you. It's a little difficult to be spontaneous and chilled-out if you're repeating bullet-points inside your head to 'keep you on track'. But fortunately, today's subject matter is a horse of a different color. Yes, there's going to be some stuff to remember here - but this isn't 'bullet points' that we're talking about here. No factoids to learn by rote. Instead, this about showing you how to get in touch with your own, physical confidence and then portray it to those around you. This is about positioning your BODY in such a way that her instinctive impression of you is that you are an at-ease guy. It's another way of LEADING her: you're setting an atmosphere of easy relaxation which she can then enjoy and contribute to. So just to clarify: this isn't about 'faking' ANYTHING. It's about making an EFFORT to man up and prove to her on a subconscious, GUT LEVEL that you're a calm, competent, laid-back kinda guy. And after we've dealt with the physical aspect of confidence, I'll have a few words to say about the importance of congruence, as well. But that can wait til later. Onward ... There's a phrase that's remarkably appropriate to today's subject matter, and that is: 'Motion creates Emotion.' In other words, your body and what you're doing with it has not only a massive impact on how OTHERS PERCEIVE YOU, but - first and foremost - it actually impacts HOW YOU FEEL inside yourself. So if you STAND like a dude who's in control, chances are, you'll start FEELING like one too. Authenticity guaranteed and 'on the house' ... which means your CONGRUENCE is ALSO guaranteed. Meaning, you're not going to be attracting females using a 'trick' that they'll soon figure out ... it's actually the REAL DEAL. Not bad for a quick postural realignment. Think about most of the 'nervous' guys that you see who are trying to forge connections with women. Chances are, they're looking pretty uncomfortable. And that winds up making HER uncomfortable. Once again, this is because most women will unknowingly FOLLOW YOUR LEAD. If you seem anxious and weird, she'll pick up on it and start feeling that way herself ... and she'll rightly blame you for it. So let's take a closer look at the unseen pitfalls that your body's setting up for you. Here's something that literally MOST MEN unknowingly do when they're not 100% at ease: they actually can't even stand up straight on their own two feet. I bet you know what I'm talking about here. They're rocking all over the place, they might have one ankle hooked around the other one, or they've got one foot kind of heeled over to the side, or they're leaning on the wall, or they're leaning on a chair ... This connotes a very strong message of UNEASE to whoever happens to be around. It's very simple, but not even being able to stand comfortably on your own two feet makes it quite clear that you're not at home with yourself. And if you're not comfortable with YOURSELF (so the logic goes) how will you ever manage to be comfortable with HER? ... and if you're not comfortable with her, you can just bet that you're going to transfer that discomfort onto her ... so that EVERYONE'S having a nervous, anxious, and all-round low-quality time. Hmmm. That's a lot to infer from just one little postural imperfection. But unfortunately, it's true. Think about any 'alpha males' that you know. Now think about how they hold themselves. As a general rule, men who are 'high value' tend to KNOW IT, and hold themselves accordingly - in a way that's very calm, very powerful, and with very little 'wasted movement'. So now might be a good idea for you to get a full-length mirror and practice striking some poses in front of it. Pay attention to the difference between how comfortable and at-ease a posture LOOKS, and how it actually FEELS. Most guys get fidgety because they can't slot themselves into a posture that feels as though it's going to look natural, so they end up squirming all over the place. But if you actually pay attention here, you'll notice that postures that might FEEL WEIRD at first actually LOOK very natural and relaxed. So take a look and get used to how particular positions feel so you can use them in public. A few quick pointers: - Shoulders relaxed and down. - Midsection tight and sucked in toward your backbone. - Feet a good distance apart. - Hands hanging relaxed at your sides. But WHY are these things attractive to females? Does it REALLY matter if your feet are a couple inches apart or not? It's like this. None of these things are attractive PER SE. For example, a woman won't take a look at a man's relaxed hands and think, 'Wow, check it out.' But it's the UNDERLYING OBSERVATIONS that are CAUSED by these little physical details that DO count in a very big way towards gut-level attraction. Specifically, all of these physical postures have the cumulative effect of portraying you as IN CONTROL and RELAXED. In other words, they're the physical hallmarks of a high-value, confident, dominant man. And as you know, these are the types of men who tend to CONSISTENTLY SUCCEED with quality women. It's a little like the little physical details that we, as guys, pay SUBCONSCIOUS attention to with women. For example, something that I've noticed is that men tend to be attracted to females with small noses and long eyelashes. Now, neither of these characteristics is necessarily something that we'd bother noticing in and of itself. You don't usually hear a guy talking about what a 'sexy nose' a woman has, or going on about her eyelashes. But if you take a look at some pictures of really attractive females, not a ONE of them will have short eyelashes or a big nose. Just as things like long lashes connote FEMININITY for women, certain POSTURES connote MASCULINITY for men. Know it. Use it. The 'little details' are more important than most people believe. Your body screams out the truth about what you're feeling and thinking, long before you could articulate it verbally. If you want proof of how important, and SUBTLE, body language is, then check this out: ... the case of the Counting Horse. About 20 years ago, this horse trainer claimed to have taught his horse to be able to add, subtract, and multiply mathematical figures. He actually proved it many times over, throughout county fairs, vaudeville acts, and theaters throughout the country. Audience members would call out complicated equations, and the horse would tap out the answer with his hoof. And every time, the horse got it right. Nobody could figure out what was going on. Scientists examined the horse closely. They screened for electronic cheating devices - none were found. The trainer stood absolutely motionless every time - no cheating there, either. Finally, a communications expert videotaped what was happening. It was discovered, after many YEARS of debate about this phenomenon, that the trainer wrinkled his brow slightly and blinked whenever he expected the horse to stop tapping his hoof. I.e., whenever the correct answer was tapped out, his HOPE that the horse would get the answer right showed itself upon his face. The horse noticed this TINY little change in his expression, and stopped tapping. Here's the weird part. The trainer didn't even know he was doing it. He wasn't TRYING to help the horse cheat. But his face twitched just a TINY little bit when the horse reached the 'right answer' ... ... which was all that was needed for the horse to cotton on, and stop tapping. Now, granted, women are not horses. But the fact remains: YOU ARE TELLING PEOPLE THINGS WITH YOUR FACE AND BODY, EVEN WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW IT. You need to accept the fact that right now, you are communicating things to others via your body language that you are NOT EVEN AWARE OF. That's spooky stuff. Obviously, this isn't something to get bogged down in. It's just a small, but IMPORTANT, detail to consider in the overall scheme of reinventing yourself as a top-notch, high-caliber, EXCELLENT human being who's worthy of the women of his choice. Oh yeah ... a little 'extra credit' reading material for you. If you're interested in fast-tracking yourself towards real-deal success starting RIGHT NOW, then you should know that accurate information is your FRIEND ... and ignorance and laziness are your ENEMIES. All things being equal, you can leap-frog yourself towards an 'unfair advantage' by informing yourself adequately about how to talk to women. Your best place to start is right here: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=conchmen I'll talk to you again soon. Be cool, Slade Shaw

Newsletter 8: What if you're short?

Subject: What if you're short? Hey {!firstname_fix}. If you want to be perceived as a MAN, and if you want to enjoy KILLER success with the ladies, 'confidence' is the key ingredient that converts daydreams into reality. ALL the famous 'lady killers' from the media to the movies are supremely confident - and that's no coincidence. If this is something you'd like to get handled for yourself, then check this out: http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confmen ... and interestingly enough, 'confidence' just happens to be the subject of today's newsletter. Today's newsletter is written by my good friend Slade Shaw. Enjoy!... From: Slade Shaw I recently got asked a question by one of my students: "What if you're short and she prefers tall guys?" The way I see it, confidence is one of those things that women often don't THINK ABOUT being attracted to. Ask a woman what she finds most desirable in a guy, and she might bring up things like height, humor, and a good career ... but she'll almost NEVER say anything about wanting a man with CONFIDENCE. However, 'confidence' is one of those 'intangible' qualities that women don't tend to THINK about you having ... but they INSTANTLY PERCEIVE whether you have it or not. And whether that confidence is present or not becomes the lens through which EVERYTHING ELSE ABOUT YOU is seen. So a woman who says that she only likes tall guys might THINK that she only wants guys like that. But really, if she were to meet a guy who fulfilled that criterion, but who didn't ALSO have CONFIDENCE, she very likely would feel no ATTRACTION for him whatsoever. And that's when she'll start saying things like, 'I don't know, he seems great on paper ... but I'm just not FEELING it.' Here's the interesting part. If you are a confident guy - meaning, you have STRENGTH of personality and that it doesn't matter overly much to you what a woman thinks of you - then it LITERALLY CEASES TO MATTER, for her AND for you, whether you're tall, short, rich, poor, or whether you exterminate bugs for a living. (No offense to exterminators ... they're good guys too.) When you're able to free yourself from the shackles of CARING about WHAT WOMEN THINK OF YOU, a radical and quantum shift occurs as a NATURAL BYPRODUCT of this attitude. Namely, that: - You instantly maximize your masculinity - You forever leave the danger-zone of validation-seeking - You become able to 'get' the kinds of women YOU want, EVEN IF they profess to like qualities in men that you specifically do NOT possess. For example, a lot of guys are put off when a woman announces point-blank that she likes guys who have a certain quality that they themselves do not. Common 'likes' include muscles and height. Both of these things are a 'big deal' for a most guys because they're not EASILY CHANGEABLE. There's not a lot you can do about your body composition or your height - at least, not quickly. So when a woman says something like that, what should you do? Does that mean that you now have 'no chance' with her? Believe it or not: the answer is NO. This is a prime opportunity for you to demonstrate some hard-core leadership and PROVE to her that, actually, YOU know better than SHE does. And what you know is, of course, that it's the FEELINGS she gets from guys who have those qualities that she really wants ... not just the qualities themselves. What she's really saying is that she wants a STRONG and MASCULINE MAN. So here's my suggestion: that you STOP caring about what women SAY they want. The bottom line is, they just don't know what they want until it happens. There are flat-out unattractive men everywhere with beautiful women on their arms - and they got those women by sheer strength of PERSONALITY. So if you can make a woman feel a certain way by YOUR strength of personality, then you can literally overcome ANY predilection for material qualities whatsoever. Accepting this fact is a little bit like figuring out an equation that most guys just DON'T GET. There are 3 ways of looking at it. Equation 1: caring about what women want + NOT having 'desirable qualities' that women consciously want = ongoing LACK of success. Equation 2: caring about what women think + HAVING 'desirable qualities' that women consciously want = some initial success that's inevitably POISONED by a weakness of character and desire for validation, followed by a long slump into tepid mediocrity. Equation 3: NOT caring about what women think + having desirable qualities OR NOT having them = radical, ongoing success with the women that YOU DESIRE. Clearly, the mitigating factor is whether you have the confidence in yourself to prioritize what YOU THINK first and foremost. It all boils down to self-esteem. Caring too much about what women think of you (translation: validation-seeking) is a BENCHMARK of 'unmanly men' who WANT to be wanted by women ... and who might even have those qualities that look good 'on paper' ... but who can never seem to CONVERT those 'on paper' qualities into ACTUAL TANGIBLE SUCCESS with women. Women like manly men, right? Meaning, they like men who are strong, in control, and who don't beg and crawl for approval. But many many MANY men are seriously intimidated by a woman whom they perceive to be attractive ... to the extent that they actually LOSE whatever veneer of 'coolness' and confidence that they usually possess, and INSTANTLY accede authority and right-of-refusal to HER. And this is when that switch marked 'attraction' in her head gets turned permanently OFF, because you are instantly perceived as no longer being able to fulfill her most basic of needs in a potential partner ... namely, that you're a MAN. You've gotta MAN UP. So ... what about looks? What if you genuinely think that you're an unattractive guy? Something that puts a big dent in the confidence of a lot of guys is the fact that they don't perceive themselves, deep down, as being the kind of guy that a quality woman would want. So they end up thinking they've got to try and ACT confident, without really FEELING it. Of course, this particular approach tends to lead to a big brick wall, because truly great women can sniff out inauthenticity ... and not only that, but they can ALSO usually put two and two together, and figure that, if you've got to 'act' confident, there must be a pretty good reason why you're not actually GENUINELY confident ... ... i.e. there must be something 'off' about you. The idea that you're not PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE enough is something that a lot of guys get hung-up over. And I think most guys would actually be OK with feeling 'average', or even LESS-than-average, looks-wise ... if it wasn't for those damn good-looking guys who have women all over them. Or if they didn't have to overhear a couple of secretaries at the office water-cooler dribbling over how 'buff' some guy at the gym was. It's this kind of stuff that gives men the idea that LOOKS are the primary determinant of success with women ... and it's what makes them think, 'I'm ugly. So I may as well not even bother.' Bottom line is, most men wish on some level that they were better looking, because they want to know how it feels to turn heads and have it EASY with women. And yeah, it's true. Looks definitely help. BUT ... they don't matter NEARLY as much as you think they do - OR in the WAY that you think they do. Let me explain. It goes without saying that you've got to do the best with what you've got. But that's obvious. What's NOT so obvious is that, as long as you're treating your body as if it's worth something, have got some personal style going on, and are meeting basic standards of hygiene, your actual LOOKS are not important. Here's the deal: APPEARANCE matters ... LOOKS do NOT. See the difference? And of course, APPEARANCE matters because it's a benchmark of how well you treat yourself. If you're slopping around without an aesthetic care in the world, that's going to broadcast the idea that you can't (or won't) take care of yourself ... and if you can't take care of yourself, chances are that you can't take care of much else in your life. In other words, you're not a 'together' kinda guy. It's hopefully becoming clear here that AUTHENTICITY and CONFIDENCE are REALLY the issues at hand. This is what I mean. If you're taking good care of yourself because you happen to FEEL GREAT that way, and because you respect and value yourself - rather than as a 'tool' to get more attraction from females - then chances are, top-notch women are going to recognize that inherent confidence in you and be DRAWN to it. And then, they'll be charmed by the 'cherry on top' personal-style thing you've ALSO got going on. Of course, the reverse is also true. If you're trying to use looks as a shield to hide behind, and as a façade to prevent women from noticing that your PERSONALITY is actually not so hot, then that will be duly noted as well - and you may find that the women you DO attract tend to be the ones who are 'fixated' on exteriors. Your motivations are like a 'set point' for the RESULTS that you end up getting. Men tend to be pretty visual creatures. We need a woman to be physically attractive to us before we can feel attraction for her. So it makes sense - at least on a logical basis - for us to hold ourselves to the same standards. But here's the deal: women don't actually care about looks nearly as much as you probably think they do. Even if they SAY they want a man who looks a particular way, it's actually what's UNDER the looks that counts: namely, the ability to be SELF-VALIDATED. To be OK with how you look, to act like you're WORTH something, and to not try to overcompensate for any perceived 'flaws'. Women are attracted, deep down, to men who AREN'T SEEKING THEIR APPROVAL. They want a strong, in-control MAN. In real-life terms, this means that they don't want a guy who is worried about what they think, or whose confidence has a big ol' dent in it because he's balding on top or shorter than he'd like to be. And they don't want a guy who comments on his 'bad points' or asks them if they think he's attractive or says, as she runs her hand over his stomach, 'I'm doing sit-ups and it will be flat in a month.' Because this stuff all SCREAMS 'VALIDATION NEEDED HERE!' If you have something that you don't like about yourself ... just be COOL about it. Don't mention it. Don't point it out. Don't apologize for it. And DEFINITELY don't ask her if she 'minds' or if it 'bothers her'. If she's with you, it doesn't bother her. Don't make it an issue. If you've got confidence in yourself, and you act like your quality is a given, and as if you have some pride in yourself and your own worth ... specifically, as if you have some VALUE ... then you're definitely being a MAN. You're leading. And that's a good thing. So ... what if you have some SERIOUS hangups about the way you look? What if you've got oozing acne, a bald patch that you're hideously self-conscious about, or Coke-bottle glasses held together with a band-aid over the nose? Well, first of all, let me remind you that confidence is to a large extent about having PRIDE in yourself, which means taking good care of yourself inside and out. If you're not acting like a guy who treats himself with worth, you can't expect other people to see past that. So yeah. Take that insecurity as the necessary foot in the butt that you need to DO something about any serious external 'issues' that you're hung up about. Go see a dermatologist, consider getting Lasik, and shave your head (balding isn't optional but shaven-headed is ... oh and by the way, it REEKS of confidence.) And one other thing: I'm suggesting these 'developments' not because you NEED to do these things to be great with women (although it certainly will help.) But let's talk turkey. Really, why sabotage your success if you don't have to? And secondly, let's not forget about VISIBLY being a 'high value' guy, which means that you should never underestimate the importance of treating YOURSELF like you're worth something. Inside and out. And thirdly ... most guys find it very hard to get past these 'issues' FOR THEMSELVES. It's not the acne or the glasses or the bald spot that turns women off ... it's the CONFIDENCE ISSUES that these things give to the man who has them. Before I go, here's that link again (check this out as soon as you can): http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confmen I'll write again soon. Be cool, Slade Shaw

Newsletter 9: Supreme Self Confidence Special - First 50 Only

'Supreme Self Confidence' Special - First 50 Only Hi {!firstname_fix}, This is a quick 'heads up' to let you know that Slade Shaw, author of 'Supreme Self Confidence' is running a special offer right now to celebrate the launch of the new edition of his ground breaking online book. If you ever wanted to get your self confidence issues sorted out once and for good, then this is something you should get for yourself right now. This special is only for the first 50 to claim it so check it out as soon as you can: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confspec What is 'Supreme Self Confidence?' Inside 'Supreme Self Confidence' by Slade Shaw you're about to SKYROCKET your self-confidence to astonishing new levels, so you'll not only be your best self at all times.... you'll also help bring out the best in others too! Have you ever seen someone from across the room that you really like, or who you'd really love to meet.... but were too overwhelmed by fear and nervousness to go over and start a conversation with her? Have you ever felt like you don't deserve the kind of woman that you are REALLY attracted to, and as a result always settle for second best? Have you ever felt yourself shaking with self-consciousness when you are talking to someone that you've got a crush on? Lost your words? Can't be your best self? Have you ever been in a relationship where you got emotionally insecure and ended up driving your partner away by your clinginess and insecurity? Have you ever fallen in love with someone before you've even dated them and got jealous and upset when they go out with another man? If you answered YES to any of the above questions, then you really need to check out Slade Shaw's 'Supreme Self Confidence' special before it expires as this is your chance to get this area of your life sorted... for good. ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confspecm Kind regards, YOUR NAME

Newsletter 10: Warning: 'Supreme Self Confidence' Special is almost over...

Warning: 'Supreme Self Confidence' Special is almost over... Hi {!firstname_fix}, I wrote recently to tell you about the incredible deal you can get on Slade Shaw's self confidence course, not just because it's a deal you won't want to miss but because this is going to help you overcome your obstacles to the love you really deserve. This special is only for the first 50 to claim it and over half have been claimed now so check it out as soon as you can: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confspec What is 'Supreme Self Confidence?' Inside 'Supreme Self Confidence' by Slade Shaw you're about to SKYROCKET your self-confidence to astonishing new levels, so you'll not only be your best self at all times.... you'll also help bring out the best in others too! Have you ever seen someone from across the room that you really like, or who you'd really love to meet.... but were too overwhelmed by fear and nervousness to go over and start a conversation with her? Have you ever felt like you don't deserve the kind of woman that you are REALLY attracted to, and as a result always settle for second best? Have you ever felt yourself shaking with self-consciousness when you are talking to someone that you've got a crush on? Lost your words? Can't be your best self? Have you ever been in a relationship where you got emotionally insecure and ended up driving your partner away by your clinginess and insecurity? Have you ever fallen in love with someone before you've even dated them and got jealous and upset when they go out with another man? If you answered YES to any of the above questions, then you really need to check out Slade Shaw's 'Supreme Self Confidence' special before it expires as this is your chance to get this area of your life sorted... for good. ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=confspecm Kind regards, YOUR NAME

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Newsletter 1: Recommended Reading: 6-part attraction mini-course

Subject: Get Your 6-Part attract man mini course Hi {!firstname_fix}, A good friend of mine, Mirabelle Summers (one of the world's leading dating and attraction experts), recently wrote a 6 part mini course in how to attract and keep a great man. I've just finished reading it and I can confirm that it is packed full of killer information. I highly recommend that you download and read it for yourself ASAP: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractmenwom In particular you'll learn how the minds of men work... and how to use this knowledge to your advantage! It's a relatively short read but it is packed full of information that I bet you never knew about men and the secrets of how to make sure they are fascinated by YOU: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractmenwom Enjoy! Your Name

Newsletter 2: Special - First 50 only - Get A Guy Guide

'Get A Guy Guide' Special - First 50 Only Hi {!firstname_fix}, This is a quick 'heads up' to let you know that Mirabelle Summers, author of 'Get A Guy Guide' is running a special offer right now that is exclusive for you my loyal newsletter readers. If you ever wanted to get your issues with men sorted out once and for good, then this is something you should get for yourself right now. This special is only for the first 50 to claim it so check it out as soon as you can: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractmenspec What is 'Get A Guy Guide?' It is a complete guide that teaches you how to enjoy massive success with the kinds of guys most women think either don't exist or are out of their league - the men who not only exude power and charisma, but also want the strong, committed, genuine relationship you have always dreamed about! I strongly recommend that you check out the website right now as this is a product that has changed the love lives and beliefs of many women around the world and you could be next. ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractmenspec Kind regards, YOUR NAME

Newsletter 3: Just 26 left

Just 26 Left ('Get A Guy Guide' Special) Hi {!firstname_fix}, This is a quick notice letting everyone know that there are only 26 copies left of 'Get A Guy Guide' with the current special bonuses attached. If you ever wanted to get your success with men sorted out once and for good, then this is something you should get for yourself right now. This special is only for the first 50 (26 left). Check it out as soon as you can: ==> http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=attractmenspec Kind regards, YOUR NAME

Newsletter 4: How to figure out what he REALLY wants

Hey there, {!firstname_fix}, You must know that it's pretty difficult to judge what a guy's THINKING from the way he's ACTING. Just about every woman I know - client or friend - has griped at some point about "guy talk" and how men frequently seem to actively mask their true intent with bizarre and misleading actions and behaviors. Some of the most common complaints that I hear: - They hang out in large, blokey groups while "on the pull", and indulge in chugging games, belching, and catcalling (while honestly believing that they're really trying hard to attract a woman.) - They try to portray themselves as "players", whose major claim to fame is an ability to seduce any woman they want. - They try to flirt with you by using toilet humor and making themselves the butt of jokes (hardly the stuff of romance novels!) - They assure a woman that they're interested in a committed and loving relationship - and then disappear the next morning. - They act aloof and disinterested around a woman they like - when in FACT, they're just intimidated by her beauty, charm, or intelligence. There are soooo many different ways that men inadvertently confuse us women! And it's not just CONFUSION that's the issue here. In fact, some men can act in ways that actually TURN WOMEN OFF. After all, who's actually attracted to a modern-day Don Juan, a self-deprecating bad flirt, or an 'I'm-above-it-all' King of Cool? The saddest part? Most of these guys aren't even doing it on purpose. Usually, these behaviors are being used as an ego shield - something to hide their REAL personality (and insecurities) behind. But does the average woman have any clue that this is what he's up to? Of course not! She just gets confused, disgruntled, and - ultimately - discouraged by his apparent lack of interest, lack of subtlety, or cavalier approach to sexual love. So how do you get a guy to drop the act and just be his REAL SELF? How do you get him to ditch the façade and get authentic about who he really is - and what he really wants? How are you supposed to figure him out, if he can't even be straight up about the most basic things?? Fortunately, the power IS in your hands. By including just a few tried-and-true methods in your bag of social tricks, you can set him at ease and get him to relax enough to reveal his truth. (By 'his truth', I mean his sense of authenticity ... his real personality, who he REALLY is, and what he REALLY wants.) Incidentally, being your authentic self is an INCREDIBLY attractive characteristic to possess. But it's not easy - most of us have been brought up to act and behave in a certain way. We've been taught to mask parts of ourselves that others might find unattractive. When you're able to be your true, honest self, and embrace CLARITY in your personality and life, everything literally just seems to fall into place. Life becomes much easier - and you'll finally start attracting the kind of men who are prepared to love the REAL YOU. I can point you towards a fantastic course that'll teach you how to be incredibly attractive to men, while AT THE SAME TIME finding a new depth of clarity, beauty, and truth in being your wholly authentic self for the first time ever. You'll find that course right here: http://YOURCLICKBANKID.unicades.hop.clickbank.net/?type=tomen Let's take a look at the 3 main problem-male personas that women who are active on the dating scene face. 1. The Player. This is the guy who prides himself on his ability to insinuate himself into the pants of just about any woman he chooses. He thinks that because he knows how to manipulate a woman into liking him, through using certain behaviors and patterns of speech, then he's "successful" with women - and with life in general. After all, he's living every guy's most primal dream: he can sleep with a different gorgeous woman every night of the week if he feels like it. (At least, this is what he tells his friends.) You might hear this guy being referred to by his mates as a "pick-up artist". He might have a "wing-man", somebody who he goes out picking up girls with. This "wing-man" will frequently introduce his player friend in a rehearsed manner that promotes the player's "high value" as a man. For example, "Hey, this is my friend Brad. He dated Miss November. Nice!" Or, "Check out this picture of Ashley's last girlfriend - how HOT is THAT?" (Cue carefully-chosen photograph of said player with a beautiful woman in a bikini.) If the player is skilled, these little "routines" will be done in a way that skilfully, deliberately piques your curiosity. The average woman isn't expecting a man to have the nous to manipulate her so subtly - so she falls for the bait, every time. The point of these 'player strategies' is to make you think that he's not affected by your own particular brand of beauty or charm ... that you're nothing special, and that, in fact, you'll be lucky to get him. Through their literature, these PUAs have told him that, in order to get past YOUR "bitch-shield" that you naturally possess as an attractive woman, he has to demonstrate to you that you are nothing special to him. Because you're used to being pursued by desperate, supplicating men (as the popular theory goes), this lack of interest will intrigue you, and you'll begin to wonder why he's not chasing after you. Before you know it, you'll actually be chasing HIM - all because he didn't demonstrate any interest in you at first, and made it clear that plenty of other women are interested in him. He's manipulated you. Another success for the PUAs. But not if you're smart! You can cut through all this crap by not playing along with his silly games. After all, you're not interested in dating a player (that is, a man who's interested in you for the CHALLENGE you present to him, not the woman that you are.) You're interested in dating a real MAN - someone who's prepared to prove to you that he's interesting and worthy of your interest, but who is ALSO self-confident enough to require that YOU be interesting to HIM. If you know a player, and you think he could be worth the effort - as in, he's not just some chump who knows how to seduce females, but a genuinely intelligent, creative man who's just headed in the wrong direction romantically - here's what you can do: GIVE HIM ONE CHANCE, AND ONE CHANCE ONLY. The moment a guy starts behaving in ways that you feel might be a trick to "get" you to feel or act a certain way ... ... for example, he might use the "Photo Routine", which is where he shows you a stack of 'holiday pics' interspersed with photos of himself posing with other beautiful women (goal: to get you to feel jealous, and see him as a desirable guy) ... ... or he might try to 'neg' you, which is where he recognizes that you are probably 'higher value' than him, and attempts to equalize your social status by subtly putting you down verbally (for example, telling you that you've got something in your ear when you don't) ... Remember that the aim of his "player" behavior is to prove to you that HE is the 'catch' here - more than you. He wants to manipulate you into thinking that he's actually doing you a favor by allowing you the opportunity to become interested in him. Why is he trying to manipulate you like this? To make it easier for him to hook up with you, of course. He thinks that if YOU think he's a real 'catch', you're not going to shoot him down. End of story. He doesn't know that he doesn't need to act like this to get your attention. If you keep cool and don't play into his games by becoming flustered, emotionally wrought, or jealous, then YOU keep the upper hand, YOU intrigue HIM, and YOU WIN. 2. The Inappropriate Humorist. This is the guy whose primary mission is to make you like him by making you laugh. This is an admirable goal, and he's got one thing right - laughter is definitely the key to a woman's heart. If he can make you laugh, he's usually worth hanging out with. Kudos to him for figuring this out. However, this particular humorist is making one huge mistake: he doesn't understand that, to get the girl, you need to couple HUMOR with RESPECT. When you're dealing with a guy who laughs at himself, invites you to laugh along AT HIM, and uses inappropriate humor like scatology (toilet humor) to get you giggling, he's got a self-esteem issue. He doesn't understand that you can have a woman in stitches ... but, if she's laughing AT you, all the humor in the world isn't going to unlock her romantic potential. Guys who make this mistake are usually just really, really nervous. They want to impress you. They want to make you laugh, and they want you to like them. Their nerves make them choose the 'easiest' route to this goal - CLOWNING AROUND. What you need to do in order to allow his true self to shine through is to build up his self-esteem where you are concerned. You need to make it clear that he's a likable guy WITHOUT the use of inappropriate humor. The best way to do this is to NOT call direct attention to his lack of humorous finesse (which would just make him MORE nervous) ... ... but to use a simple and highly effective technique known as "positive reinforcement training." Ironically, this is a strategy that's actually been developed by animal trainers. I'm not implying that men are like animals - but this 'training' method WORKS. The concept is centered around REWARDING the behavior that you like (with the validation he's searching for - a giggle or a smile) and IGNORING the behavior that you don't like. So, when he cracks a dumb joke, or tries to make you laugh at something that is not funny, don't force a laugh. Don't frown. Don't ask him why he thinks that's funny. SIMPLY DO NOT REACT. This is actually the most effective thing you can do. To this kind of guy, NO attention is much worse than NEGATIVE attention. So by ignoring his unfunny or inappropriate jokes, you're sending a clear message that that kind of behavior is unwanted... and won't help him get to know you better. When you contrast the coldness of your withdrawal of attention with the pleasure he gets from your laughter reaction when he DOES do something worthy of a positive reaction (like making a genuinely funny joke, not making himself the butt of jokes)... he'll catch on very quickly. POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT (reward what you like, ignore what you don't like) is what will help him to realize that it's his normal, relaxed, at-ease self that's attractive ... not his tense, jittery, clowning-around self. 3. Aloof/Disinterested Sometimes, it's hard to tell whether a guy genuinely isn't interested - or whether he's simply shy! If you feel like there's a spark there, but you just can't seem to break past those boundaries, you need to suss out whether it's true indifference or just shyness that's raising the barriers. The best way to do this is to get the bit between your teeth, and strike up a conversation with him. Making this effort yourself, instead of waiting and hoping for HIM to do it, makes ALL the difference when it comes to figuring out what's behind his coolness. If he's just shy, you'll need to give him a few moments to warm up. Have a couple of questions prepared beforehand in case he's a 'listener' rather than a 'talker' - and make sure they're open-ended questions (ones that can't be answered with a straight yes/no.) Once you've asked him 3 questions or so, you're engaged in an official conversation - which is a prime opportunity for him to relax and see that his shyness isn't scaring you off, after all. And if he's not loosening up and his demeanor's not changing? Then that means one thing: simply that he's not interested. If he's a nice person, he'll still go along with the conversation - but don't be fooled into thinking that 'politeness' equals 'attraction'. All the conversation in the world won't make a bit of difference if that spark's missing - and trust me, you can tell when it's there and when it's not. To learn how to cut to the chase and take the game- playing out of dating, you must take the time to look over How to Be Irresistible to Men: http://YOURCLICKBANKID.unicades.hop.clickbank.net/?type=tomen If in doubt, simply remember this basic fact: if he's attracted to you, YOU'LL FEEL IT. I'll talk to you again soon! YOUR NAME

Newsletter 5: Why 'letting go' gets you loved up

****** INSIDER'S TIP: Look, I totally get the fact that men are frequently SUPER-CONFUSING to deal with. They say things they don't mean ... they act in ways that don't make sense ... they act like they're interested when they're not ... they even act like they're NOT interested when they ARE! It's enough to get ANY woman's head in a muddle. Take a moment now and imagine how calm and easy life would be if you never had to worry about men EVER AGAIN. Imagine how powerful and confident you would feel if you ALWAYS knew EXACTLY how to act around men, what to say, how to behave ... and that this behavior ALWAYS resulted in success for you! Imagine TOTAL CONFIDENCE in your own attractiveness as a woman. Does this knowledge sound like something worth having to you? If your answer to this question was 'Yes!', then I've got a fast, easy, and EFFECTIVE answer for YOU: to go here, right now, and check out this course. The kind of knowledge that you'll gain is literally going to transform your life. Here's what I'm talking about: http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=getguywom ****** Hey, {!firstname_fix}... Us women are brought up with a really GOAL-ORIENTED approach to life. We don't sit back and passively let life wash over us - we have our eyes on the prize. We know what we want, and we're taught to take active steps to get it. We're told to rely only on ourselves: that if we want something, it's up to US to MAKE IT OURS. We plan, strategize, and plot out deliberate techniques specifically angled towards quick and effective success. We have learned to engage fully in our lives and rely on OURSELVES to fulfil our ambitions and desires. This is an admirable approach to LIFE. It's NOT an admirable approach to DATING. When you begin to view DATING in this way ... ... as a series of milestones to be passed and achievements to be accomplished ... ...that's when AAAALLL the fun gets sucked right out of the process. Remember when you were a teenager and you'd just started out dating? It was an exciting, happy time, wasn't it? You were getting to know all these new people, it was interesting and fun, you were learning things about YOURSELF at the same time ... ... and, best of all, you didn't really have any expectations. You weren't expecting those guys to be your future husband - you were just in it for a good time. As we grow older, our expectations naturally grow and change. It seems almost inevitable that the older we grow, the more we perceive pressure on us to find and keep a 'good catch.' It's not FUN anymore. In fact, it's almost like WORK. You map out a game plan, put in the hard yards, do what you think you have to do in order to get what you want ... and then you expect RESULTS. The main problem with this attitude is that, by focusing all your energies on the END-GOAL, you miss out on the beauty and light-hearted, flirtatious fun of the middle part! That's right - dating can still be FUN (remember fun?) You can still enjoy each and every interaction with a single man that you have, whether it ends up going anywhere or not. And best of all? This fun-loving, light-hearted outlook is the attitude that's most likely to actually land you the perfect man of your dreams! (I know ... ironic, isn't it?) When you think that finding The One is a GOAL that you have to 'get' in order to be happy and fulfilled, then your horizons shrink. You become super-focused and driven: you want results, results, RESULTS! Like the go-getter that you are, you focus on what you want to get and STRIVE to achieve it. You work hard at attracting the 'right man'. You figure out strategies that you can use to 'catch' this dreamboat. You might even write lists of the features that The One 'must' have in order to qualify for eventual status as your future husband. This is an EXCELLENT approach to adopt ... in the boardroom, the office, or wherever your place of work might be. But dating should NEVER be the same as work - and, even more importantly, your attitude must reflect this fact! When you take a 'working' attitude to dating and relationships, all the good times and enjoyment gets boiled right out. The whole thing turns into a dried-up, joyless, achievement-grubbing MESS - and YOU end up nursing a stress migraine, comfort eating on the couch, and bewailing your lack of success. You need a wake-up call! It's time to take control of the area of your life dubbed 'relationships and dating' ... and the most effective thing you can do is to adjust your ATTITUDE. Your attitude is TRULY what defines your success with dating and men. So it's up to you, and you alone, to make sure that your attitude is as ATTRACTIVE and GENERATIVE as possible (meaning that, your attitude is attractive, and therefore it generates success.) It's time for you to learn how to create AND MAINTAIN the most empowering attitude you'll ever have to dating, relationships, love, and men. This attitude will truly set you free - and, at the same time, it'll take you giant-steps closer towards getting the relationship of your dreams. The secret? You have to learn to LET IT ALL GO. You have to learn to stop caring so much about finding 'the right man'! Once you've released your hold on this goal, and stopped trying to impose your own order and method on the universe, you have SOOOO much more energy to devote towards the things that really count ... like enjoying life. Like maintaining rewarding relationships. Like taking care of YOURSELF. And - surprise, surprise - it's when we're really, authentically absorbed in living the most rewarding, enjoyable life that we can ... and when we're not obsessing over creating RESULTS ... that the perfect guy for us will come along. And before you go rushing off to use this theory as a new way to 'land' you the 'catch' of your dreams, I've got to stop you right there. For this approach to work, you've got to embrace it genuinely and honestly. And that means, learning to engage in your life FOR ITS OWN SAKE, not just as another technique for 'getting' a relationship or a particular man. It's only when you're really authentic that it will work for you! Look, I understand TOTALLY that dating can be hard work sometimes. Attending singles dances and parties, asking your married friends to fix you up, networking, mingling at parties ... sometimes, when the field has been fruitless for awhile, it can feel almost like you're trapped on an endlessly-revolving gerbil wheel. But when women become jaded about the process of looking for love, they attain a certain hard, cynical, almost STONY quality. It's like all the life, laughter, softness, and femininity has been sucked right out of them. They stop enjoying themselves, and become almost BITTER. They're not hoping for love - they're expecting it. And when those expectations are disappointed (as they inevitably will be, with that kind of attitude), those women use this failure as further evidence of the impossibility of finding true love. Thus, they become even MORE bitter and resentful. It's a vicious cycle. Needless to say, this is not an attractive attitude to have. A woman who's sick of the dating game, who's had her 'expectations' disappointed one too many times, is EASY to spot for most men. She's the one making cynical jokes about how she would have been better off staying at home watching 'Sex and the City' reruns. She's the one who has maybe had a few too many drinks 'to get her going.' She's the one who's lacking that oh-so-important SPARKLE ... which is the look of a woman who's really enjoying herself, who's having a great time, and whose happiness doesn't depend on whether she gets 'success' or not. If you feel as though you're sick to death of looking for Mr. Right, then you HAVE to take a moment and rethink your approach. FACT: Dating is FUN! It's about having a good time, meeting some new people, and establishing yourself with a great network of new friends and new dates. Those dates might yield a rewarding relationship ... or they might not. And if they don't, that doesn't mean that they were a waste of time. It's up to you to ask yourself, 'Where is the gift in what just happened to me? What can I learn from it? How can I use this experience to grow?' When you learn to do this, you will truly learn and develop as a woman - and the experience of dating will achieve a new significance and reward for you, regardless of whether it produces a relationship or not. I'm sure you know that the men who are really worth being with want the kind of woman who's got herself sorted ... who has her attitude centered around sound values, psychologically and emotionally. The thing that so many of us forget is that dating about the JOURNEY just as much as it is about the destination. And, ironically, when you're too focused on making something HAPPEN, you're actually reducing your chances of success in that area. If you're totally driven to 'get a man', then you PROBABLY WON'T GET ONE. Look, here's how it works. If you have a full, busy, interesting life of your own, that you ENJOY living ... ... with a life, hobbies, career, interests, and friends of your own ... ... then you don't really NEED a guy to 'complete' you. You're not a needy leech, waiting desperately to be rescued. You're a fulfilled, stable, balanced woman with a GREAT life of her own. You don't NEED a man - or a relationship - to complete you! THIS is the attitude that will save you from the hell of the, 'I've GOT to find a man' attitude. It will save you from the stress and strain of trying to FORCE something to happen whenever you go out on the prowl. And it will enable you to relax, kick back, and have a laugh when you're out socializing and meeting new people. FACT: When you're really tied up in the outcome of a particular event, it attains an unnatural significance for you. You may not realize it, but your personality and the way you portray yourself to others actually CHANGES in direct proportion to how much you want that thing to happen. Here's how it works. If you're out at a party in GOAL-ORIENTED mode, everything about you is angled towards ATTRACTING A MAN. You're self-conscious - and IT SHOWS. You're tense, agitated, and fizzing with nervous energy - and EVERYONE CAN TELL. And, even worse, if things don't seem to be going to plan ... like if there are no eligible men present, or you haven't been asked to dance ... your whole night is RUINED. On the other hand, when the outcome of an event ISN'T of earth-shaking importance for you, you're able to be your REAL self. THIS is the self that has fun, that ENJOYS herself ... and, coincidentally, it's the self that's MOST ATTRACTIVE to others. Everyone wants to be around the relaxed girl who's having a great time. NOBODY wants to be around the woman whose whole being is angled towards success, success, SUCCESS. Learn to think of dating and relationships as just one more aspect of your full-to-the-brim, energetic, fulfilling life - NOT that life's purpose. When you do this, you'll notice that 2 incredible things start to happen: 1. You relax, your stress levels decrease, and you yield to the beautiful harmony of life. You trust in the abundance of the universe (what Dr Alex Benzer calls 'wealth consciousness'), and feel confident that everything will turn out okay, WITHOUT you having to agonize over it. You find a new sense of balance. Essentially, you begin to enjoy yourself ... a LOT more. 2. You become INSTANTLY more attractive to men. Your relaxed, carefree enjoyment of life is totally irresistible to most people - after all, we ALL want to be around somebody with a genuine zest for life. Your natural effervescence will boost the mood of any man who comes near you - and THAT is authentically irresistible. So please. For your own sake, as well as the sake of all those men out there who are praying that, one day, they'll find a woman just like you... ... learn to LET GO a little bit. Yield yourself to the rhythm of life. Accept the fact that you don't have to stress, strive, and agonize over your appearance and attractiveness in order to BE attractive. Accept dating for what it is: a fun, light-hearted part of your life. Eventually, you WILL find the man of your dreams ... ... So instead of stressing and straining about how to find him, meet him, and attract him, don't you think it's a better idea to LET GO of your worries, ACCEPT that 'what will be, will be', and simply enjoy the ride? For more tips, check out the Get A Guy Guide course at: http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=getguywom We'll talk again soon! Your friend, Mirabelle Summers

Newsletter 6: How to Get More Attraction Every Time

>>Hey, {!firstname_fix}, Have you noticed something funny? A lot of the techniques and strategies for being attractive to MEN are also applicable when it comes to being attractive IN GENERAL. Once you start applying the tips and techniques for attracting MEN that you'll find in these newsletters and the MYS product library, you'll feel the positive repercussions in all areas of your life: your family, your friends, your job. When you make BEING ATTRACTIVE a real priority, you begin to have MAGNIFICENT relationships with EVERYONE in your life. It's not just about the men! It's an interesting concept, isn't it? Because it leads to the concept that men are ACTUALLY not all that different from everyone else. What MEN find attractive is often what EVERYONE finds attractive ... and, in fact, is also what will help you to enjoy the kind of success in your life and work that you'd ALSO like to enjoy in your personal romantic relationships. When you step back and take a look at how successful you feel in the 'attracting men' part of your life, you can use the resulting evaluation as a kind of 'self-calibration barometer' to evaluate how you are behaving in general ... and whether there are any areas of your life that may need to be changed. For example, if you're pretty successful with men, it's a reasonably safe bet that you're also doing pretty well in OTHER areas that require social skills (such as familial and business relationships.) But if you're lagging behind with your dating and relationship goals, it could be a 'warning sign' that you might need to work the aspects of your character that handle ALL social interactions ... such as your ease in social situations, your self-confidence, your self-image, and so on. This is also a KEY strategy for making sure you are authentic and genuine at all times ... because, as I hope you're aware by now, truly authentic women never resort to game-playing, manipulation, or following arbitrary rules in order to attract the man of their dreams into their lives. TANGENT: Incidentally, not everybody is as scrupulous as you and I. There are plenty of books and resources available which will actively encourage you to manipulate and trick men into feeling what they THINK is 'attraction' for you. Unfortunately, when you get right down to it, this kind of attraction is nothing more than what a cat feels for the piece of yarn you're dangling in front of it: the instinct to CHASE. When you resort to trickery and manipulation to attract men, YOU become that piece of string. You're attractive as long as you're playing the game ... but as soon as you stop, and relax, and become YOURSELF, the attraction just fizzles out. Being genuine is more important than you probably realize when it comes to forming the kinds of relationships you want, with the MEN that you want. When you listen to your OWN voice, and your OWN opinions, you're much more likely to attract somebody who is a good 'fit' for YOU into your life. And if a genuine relationship that puts commitment forward as one of it's chief priorities is a goal of yours, Amy Waterman's 'Connect And Commit' course is a great place to start: http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=commitwom Of course, that's not to say that you shouldn't be taking advice or following anybody else's opinion. Instead, I'm saying that you should always run new ideas past your own internal Opinion-Generating Machine before you ACT on those ideas. Follow somebody's advice blindly, and you are setting yourself up for pure, unmitigated DISASTER. Here's a little story to illustrate what I'm talking about. (Incidentally, this story is actually based on the experiences of a client of mine ... but I've changed her name to protect her privacy.) This woman - we'll call her Sharon - has been seeing her boyfriend for the past 6 months. They are in love, and are committed to one another. Although they've made no plans to get married or anything of the sort, Sharon's boyfriend has shown her that he loves her many times over in the way that he acts around her, and the things he does for her. The two of them live together in a small one-bedroom apartment, and are quite happy there. Sharon's mother and father, however, are not so impressed. Sharon's mother wants to see her Sharon happily married with a ring on her finger ... and hopefully, with a bun in the oven before too long (if you'll pardon the expression.) Sharon's father doesn't care too much about the wedding, but he 'knows what men are like' and wants to make sure that this guy is REALLY as committed to Sharon as he says he is. One day, over Sunday lunch, Sharon's parents sit her down and ask her when she's going to be getting married. They tell her that a verbal commitment is NOT the same thing as a SHOW of commitment (i.e. a ring), and that, as they have always said, 'actions speak louder than words' ... so when will they be setting a date? At first, Sharon brushes their questions off. After all, she and her partner are happily in love, and she knows he wants to be with HER. As far as she is concerned, people are together because they WANT to be, not because they HAVE to be. But if that's the case (says her mother), if he's so sure he wants to be with her, why DOESN'T he want to get married? Really, he should be thinking about what SHE wants, not just what HE wants ... and Sharon has wanted to get married ever since she was a little girl, 'remember, Sharon?' Sharon goes home that day in a pensive mood. Her parents have introduced an element of doubt into her otherwise happy life. Here's what is going through her mind ... If he DID want to be with her, SHOULDN'T he care about what she wants enough to ask her to marry him? Could it be possible that he's NOT, actually, quite sure about her ... and that he might possibly just be biding his time and seeing if anything else comes along? And that phrase of her mother's keeps ringing in her mind ... "actions speak louder than words" ... Before you know it, Sharon's sense of security in her own relationship has been compromised. She is worried and unhappy - and, worse, afraid to talk to her partner about how she truly feels (probably because part of her knows just how ridiculous those fears really are.) Sharon ends up putting pressure on her partner about his intentions. She didn't MEAN to, but the pressure from her parents began to get to her. And - as is so often the case in these scenarios - her fears created a self-fulfilling prophecy. She was afraid that her boyfriend might be 'stringing her along' with no intention of staying around for the long haul ... So, she began to act paranoid, needy, and insecure, constantly asking for reassurances and proof that he would NOT be leaving her. This made her partner feel pressured and unhappy ... which led to more insecurity from Sharon ... causing more paranoia and neediness ... causing more unhappiness on his behalf ... Finally, Sharon's partner couldn't take it any more. The woman he loved was happy, confident, secure Sharon - not this weepy, needy, insecure, demanding woman that she'd morphed into. He packed up all his stuff, moved out of their apartment, and told Sharon he was ending it. Here's the REALLY sad part. If she had listened to her OWN instincts and beliefs about her own relationship, instead of allowing other people's opinions ... ... (opinions motivated by God only knows what - mistaken good intentions at best) ... ... to influence the course of her relationship and life, there is a very good chance that she WOULD have been married by now. At the very least, she and her partner would very likely still be together. The lesson in this little parable is as follows: if you want to be genuinely successful with men (and, in fact, with life in general), you must learn to create your own 'frames' for your relationships. Otherwise, your actions will forever be influenced by other people's opinions ... and you'll be far less likely to act appropriately to your own situation. WHAT IS A FRAME? A frame is a useful concept that's based in NLP (neuro-linguistic programming.) A frame is basically a context, or a focus, for your thoughts and actions. It's like a picture frame for your life: just as a picture frame provides boundaries for the image seen within, a frame provides your life with limitations ... and can also open up all sorts of possibilities. It all depends on the frame that you choose to operate out of. For example, in Sharon's case, her parents framed her relationship in the context of her partner being a 'typical man' who was probably out to just get what he could from Sharon without taking her needs into account. They had framed him as a selfish man who was not to be trusted. Unfortunately for Sharon, her own 'frame' - although much more positive than this - was also much WEAKER than her parents' frame. She allowed THEIR frame of her relationship to define and change the parameters of her OWN frame - EVEN THOUGH IT WAS FOR HER OWN RELATIONSHIP! She allowed her parents to reframe her relationship for her. THIS is the reason why it ended badly: because Sharon allowed her perceptions, interpretations, and reactions to her relationship to be REFRAMED by somebody else much less qualified than herself to do so. I really cannot stress this enough: if you want to be successful in life and love, you MUST be capable of framing your OWN relationships and experiences FOR YOURSELF. What this means, in practical terms, is that you must put more energy into controlling your OWN relationships and your OWN perceptions, BASED ON WHAT YOU KNOW. Yours is the opinion that is the most important, because YOU are the person who knows what is best FOR YOU. Think of it this way: if Sharon had been a strong, confident woman, who was capable of maintaining her own relationship frame based on HER OWN PERCEPTIONS, she would have been able to comfortably listen to her parents' attempt to negatively reframe her relationship for her ... thank them for sharing ... and then return to the comfort of her own home ... all without turning a hair. Look: reframing isn't always a bad thing. It is entirely possible to POSITIVELY reframe an experience, for example, and thus feel better about what could have been seen as a 'bad' thing for you. But you MUST be capable of comparing everybody else's frames on your experiences to your own PERSONAL opinion and your own PERSONAL frame. Don't just swallow them hook, line, and sinker - or else you'll never have your own opinion, you'll ALWAYS be at the mercy of other people's frames, and (of course) most people will not perceive you as attractive ... because there is nothing attractive about a weak, unconfident, and insecure woman! Just remember this: THE PERSON WITH THE MOST CONFIDENCE ALWAYS WINS. The person with the strongest FRAME always wins. If Sharon had replied to her parents with a confident, "Yes, and isn't it great that I'm so happy and secure in my relationship that I don't need a ring to feel safe?" ... they would have been, initially, flummoxed ... and then (I'll bet money on it) actually HAPPY for her. Think about it. There are so many ways to get the committed relationship you have always dreamed of. Applying some quality advice is the first ingredient, which is why you must check out 'Connect And Commit': http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=commitwom I'll talk to you again soon ... Your friend, Mirabelle Summers MeetYourSweet.com

Newsletter 7: What if you want MORE than friendship?

Hey, You know how AGONIZING it is when you have a male friend who you've developed feelings for. It's not the feelings themselves that cause so much pain ... it's when they're UNREQUITED that it really hurts. Of course, there are things you can do to try and move the friendship to the next level - but frankly, there is a very high chance of ending up with nothing more than a wounded ego and no more friendship. If you find yourself tongue-tied when around men you really like, you may want to take a look at: http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=conchwom It's a difficult one. But there is a solution ... It's called, NOT GETTING STUCK AS A FRIEND IN THE FIRST PLACE! Seriously. If you've got a guy friend you're ALREADY hopelessly in love with, you are going to have to make a choice: a) Either tell him, directly or through subtle innuendo, how you feel, and risk losing the friendship OR b) Cut your losses now, and end the friendship yourself. Truly, you will most likely NOT be able to continue being 'friends' on any normal and healthy level with someone you are in love with ... what usually happens is that the woman in question becomes more and more miserable, more and more besotted, and more and more insecure ... ... until finally she's TOTALLY fixated on this one guy and loses out on ALL these other opportunities to meet GREAT new men who actually DO want her. Think about it! What kind of a lesson are you teaching yourself when you "hang in there" in the hopes that this friend of yours will eventually wake up one morning and 'realize' that he's madly in love with you? You're teaching yourself a subconscious lesson that MEN DON'T FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE... ... and that the way to make men find you attractive is to chase them around and get more and more bogged down in your own head and your own emotions. Look: he's not going to spontaneously REALIZE that he has feelings for you. Sorry, but that just doesn't happen. Well ... allow me to correct myself (slightly.) I am willing to concede that SOMETIMES, and VERY RARELY, this has been known to happen ... but realistically, the chances of this happening to you are almost nil. That's something you're just going to have to accept. You either need to be straight-up with him about how you feel, or end the friendship and move on, thus freeing yourself up for better things. (Let's face it: the friendship ACTUALLY ended when you realized you had feelings for him. You can't be real friends with someone you're in love with.) And in fact, you've actually got MORE of a chance of success with this guy happening if you REMOVE yourself from his life for awhile(especially when the alternative is you hanging around, being super-available all the time and hoping that something happens.) Let him miss you. See what happens. In this situation, making yourself less available, more mysterious, and more INDEPENDENT is EXACTLY what you need to do. Familiarity does not breed lust or love with someone who thinks of you as a friend ... but a little distance and a little 'missing you' just MIGHT. (Once again: that's MIGHT.) But in all honesty, the best cure for this horrible situation is PREVENTION. And that means that you have to prevent yourself from slipping into a platonic friendship with a man you consider potential boyfriend material (or even husband material) RIGHT FROM THE GET-GO. Let's talk about some ways for you to do that. First of all: you need to focus on creating CHEMISTRY. It's very important that he sees you as a feminine, attractive being from the VERY BEGINNING. This doesn't mean that you have to be perfect or beautiful - it just means that, since you never know when you're going to meet someone you feel that SPARK with, it's important that you are prepared for flirtation and attraction AT ALL TIMES. Let's be honest for a moment, shall we? Men tend to form their impressions of a woman very quickly. It doesn't take long for them to 'categorize' a new acquaintance as, 'possible lover' or 'just a friend', so you need to be ready to take advantage of the opportunity when it presents itself. Here's an example of why this is important: My friend (we'll call her Dana, to protect her privacy) was round at another friend - who we'll call Stephanie - 's place the other day. They had a 'girl's night in' planned, so Dana had deliberately dressed right down. She was wearing loose, sloppy trackpants, Ug boots, no makeup, and her hair wasn't freshly washed. Basically, she was prepared for a night of eating comfort-food and lying on the couch with Stephanie, dishing the dirt and just chilling out. But about half an hour into the evening, Stephanie got a knock on the door ...and when she got up to answer it, it was her brother ... and about 3 of his friends. One of whom, coincidentally, happened to be JUST Dana's type - smart, professional, witty, interesting, and cute to boot. Even MORE coincidentally, Dana was single and looking. But did she take advantage of this unexpected gift dropping right into her lap?? No, she did not. She was so intimidated by how frumpy she was feeling that she just sat quietly on the couch, hugging her knees to her chest, and hardly said a WORD. Not one inkling of her normal sparkling, witty personality came through: as she said later, she felt "at a horrible, underdressed, unattractive disadvantage." HERE'S THE LESSON IN WHAT HAPPENED TO DANA: Because she was feeling frumpy, she TOTALLY shot herself in the foot and lost an opportunity to make a connection with a real live attractive man right in front of her! Who knows what could have happened if she'd been feeling confident and attractive and had participated fully in the conversation? The message here is that YOUR CONFIDENCE LEVELS ARE KEY. If you are looking frumpy, chances are you're FEELING frumpy ... and most likely, guys will be able to sense that you're feeling that way, and will not be attracted. It's not that you need to look beautiful or glamorous. You just need to feel COMFORTABLE enough with your own self and the message you're sending out there to be able to jump at the opportunity when one presents itself. The world is ripe with unexpected possibilities for meeting people. It pays to take care of yourself at ALL TIMES: not only will you LOOK better (which, frankly, never hurts), but - more importantly - you will be much more able to be your attractive, confident and unique self and have fun in the moment without feeling self-conscious and inhibited. Tip #2: When you talk to him, don't just TALK. FLIRT. Don't be prone to 'magical thinking' and just expect something to miraculously 'happen' when you meet a man you find attractive. You might be surprised at how many women do this: they find someone who could be relationship material, and decide that if it's 'meant to be', then it will 'just happen'. And as a result, they make very little effort to help matters along ... and of course, NOTHING ENDS UP HAPPENING. Here's a little tip for you: you are MUCH more likely to enjoy success with the men of your choosing when you CREATE an atmosphere of FLIRTATION and CHEMISTRY. This doesn't mean that you have to re-invent yourself as a giggling, simpering minx. Good flirting isn't about SCREAMING sexuality, it's about HINTING at it ... but more than anything else, it's about making the guy feel great about himself. ... and if you ARE interested in learning how to be the kind of mature, attractive, interesting flirt who knocks their socks off, you should check this out: http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=YOURCLICKBANKID&pg=conchwom ... but I'll give you a few quick pointers so you always get off on the right foot: Good flirting is about creating the space for romance to happen. If you want to flirt with a guy, you should bear in mind that it's all about giving him POSITIVE FEEDBACK. If you want him to seek you out again and again, you want to let him know that you enjoy his company. So: smile. A LOT. Laugh at his jokes. Make plenty of eye contact. And introduce TOUCH - this one's a biggie, as it really emphasizes your femininity and portrays you in a more physical framework. (Use sparingly, though, because it's powerful!) I'll talk to you again soon! YOUR NAME

Newsletter 8: Make Him Fall In Love On The First Date

The way we behave on the first couple of dates is what sets the tone for the rest of the relationship, whether it's a week long or lasts for a lifetime. It's a microcosm. This is why the first couple of dates are EVALUATIVE in nature: each person, if they're smart and accustomed to dating efficiently and effectively, is evaluating the other person to see if they're likely to be a good 'fit'. For many women, this is really confusing. Lots of women don't realize that the first date(s) are evaluative in nature - they think that the evaluation has gone on BEFORE the date even occurs. They think that if somebody asks them out on a date, they must have already decided that they 'like' her - as if this is a done and dusted conclusion. This is not the case at all! Yes, a man is INTERESTED if he asks you out on a date, or if he accepts your offer of a date. But that isn't license to get all excited and start planning your future together - or even to spend (waste?) time daydreaming about how cute he is, how well you'll probably get on together, and what he'll be like in bed. When you take success for granted ahead of time, you're setting yourself up for a major disappointment. Not just because, IF the date doesn't pan out well, you'll be disappointed (which, after having invested time and effort in daydreaming all these romantic daydreams about him, you will be) ... ... but because counting your chickens before they are hatched is actually a CAUSE of a date going badly. It all boils down to the EMOTIONAL SIGNIFICANCE that you invest in a particular event, and the pressure that that significance places you under. For example, let's say you're on a date with a really hunky guy who you're REALLY into. You think he's great - in fact, you're even thinking, "This could be The One!" And because of the importance that you've invested this date with - the emotional significance that it now has for you, what with this guy potentially being your future husband and all - suddenly, everything is MUCH too important for you to be able to relax. There's too much at stake. What if you screw up? You'll have ruined a potentially great relationship with this guy, who could even be The One! What if he doesn't like you? What if you do or say something dumb? What if you RUIN everything?? That is the kind of thinking that your 'mental chatterbox' will subject you to, when you over-invest in an event's significance. The pressure involved causes you to get stressed out, anxious, self-conscious, and jumpy ... ... and it's simply NOT ATTRACTIVE. If this sounds dreadfully familiar, I can help rescue you from yourself without lowering yourself to games and trickery. If you want genuine men, it takes a genuine approach, which you can find out more about at: http://YOURCLICKBANKID.unicades.hop.clickbank.net/?type=tomen In addition to all the weird mannerisms that nerves subject you to (like playing with your hair, sitting very stiffly and self-consciously, laughing too hard or nervously, talking fast or not enough), you also become very PREOCCUPIED. There's another phrase that life-coaches and psychologists use to describe this state of mind. They call it NOT BEING IN THE MOMENT. When you're 'not in the moment', you're basically living inside your own head. You're distracted from what's ACTUALLY HAPPENING by the judgments, opinions, and worries that your 'mental chatterbox' is supplying you with. This quality of living inside your own head is what stops you from being truly attractive. Instead, you're preoccupied, self-absorbed, and not centered - the three hallmarks of the insecure and needy person. (I'm sure I don't need to tell you that neediness and insecurity are qualities that most people will RUN from.) Being present, or 'in the moment', is one of the most ATTRACTIVE ways of being that you could ever hope to adopt. It's all about turfing out all your cares and worries about the past (which you can't change) and the future (which you can't predict), and just relaxing into your life and into the present moment. Essentially, it's being comfortable in your own skin, and in the way that things are right now. When you're free from your own pre-formed opinions and needs and desires on a date, you instantly become much calmer and more accepting. You're able to relax more, and get much more from the man you're on the date with. You can truly pay attention to HIM, see the world from his point of view, and really participate in the event. Instant charisma! You can always tell someone who's truly in the moment because they seem so calm, accepting, centered, and enlivened. They make you feel good to be around. You know that, when they're with you, they really are WITH YOU - not off somewhere in their own little world where you can't follow. When you think about it, this moment is the only one we ever have. We do not exist in the past, or in the future - only RIGHT NOW, in the 'here and now'. And it's in this present moment that everything that'll have an impact on your FUTURE 'here and now' takes place - which is part of the reason why being fully present, and not permitting yourself to be distracted by the past OR the future ... ... simply focusing your full attention on whatever it is that you're doing right now, whether it's talking to someone, listening to what they've got to say, eating a meal, doing the dishes ... ... is so important. And it's very ATTRACTIVE, too. Let's take the example of being on a date to make this perfectly clear to you. When you're out with a guy, one of the most attractive things you can do is to focus your full, undivided attention on him. You're not craning your neck around, zoning out and thinking about whether you're double parked, or checking out the waiter. You're not saying, "What?" every two minutes. You're simply giving him the gift of your total concentration and full attention - just by LISTENING to what he's got to say. Not imposing any values on him. Not judging him, or comparing what he's said to your own personal agenda, or trying to decide whether you guys are going to be future soul-mates or not. Not paying attention to the chatterbox inside your head. Just LISTENING to him, and really participating IN THE MOMENT. Here's a passage from an interview with Marie Forleo, whose way of talking about the quality of being 'in the moment' I really appreciate. She tells you that, if you want to try being in the moment when you're out with somebody, you can actually train yourself to exist on that plane. You can do this by COMPLETELY DROPPING the conversation that's in your mind (your 'mental chatterbox'), and putting your attention on fully hearing what your companion has to say FROM THEIR POINT OF VIEW. You don't have to agree with it. You don't have to disagree with it. Don't try and figure out if you know where they're going with it. Don't make comments on it. Don't try to finish their sentence for them, or interrupt. Just practice bringing yourself back to REALLY HEARING what they have to say from their point of view. This is a really simple exercise to train you in being present in the moment - but it's very effective, it's very efficient, and it's VERY attractive. If you like Marie's style (as I do - she's one sharp cookie, that woman!) you can find more of her laser-accurate analysis and spot-on advice right here: http://YOURCLICKBANKID.unicades.hop.clickbank.net/?type=wantmore Incidentally, I know this might be a little confusing at first - here I am telling you that the first dates are evaluative in nature, and then in the next breath I'm telling you to put your judgments aside and 'be in the moment'. Here's a trick for you: YOU CAN DO BOTH. Before you go on the date, you'll ideally have figured out what it is, essentially, that you're looking for in an ideal man. You've got a fairly clear idea of what it is that you're looking for. When you're ON the date, you put those desires and judgments-in-waiting to one side, and simply EXIST, devoting your attention to the present moment. You wait to form opinions of this person and consciously evaluate the date when you can no longer gain more valuable information or input from what happens on the date itself - i.e., when it's OVER. You can do both! You might feel at this point like there are a lot of little things to remember, attitudes to implement, and things to do and not to do. That's OK. You don't have to worry about it right now - learning a new approach DOES take a bit of effort at first. But the more you practice doing it, the easier it will become, until being in the moment is no longer something that you have to consciously practice doing - it simply becomes part of who you are. And when you reach that stage, it's like magic - you really enhance your attractiveness, and (because others can sense your authenticity, and your ability to be comfortable in your own skin, and the fact that you're a judgment-free zone) you form MUCH more meaningful, deep bonds with people. So to wrap up for today, here's a quick review of the key points we've covered just now: - First dates are evaluative by definition. Don't waste your time or energy forming opinions of a guy before the date itself. Remember, you don't know him yet. - Investing too much emotional significance in a date is unattractive. It makes you nervous, jumpy, and self-conscious, and sets you up for disappointment. - Learn to be in the moment in order to be truly attractive, and to get as much out of your dates as you truly can. Put your judgments to one side and just participate in the moment. - You can wait until after the date to form opinions. It's not productive OR attractive to form opinions and evaluate while actually on the date. Keep an open mind and put your mental chatterbox to the side. - Practice being in the moment by dropping your internal conversation (the chatterbox) and bring your attention fully to bear on the person that you are with. Do this until it becomes second nature, and reap the benefits! Don't forget, if you are really serious about success with men, your first port of call is How to Be Irresistible to Men: http://YOURCLICKBANKID.unicades.hop.clickbank.net/?type=tomen I'll talk to you again soon! Your friend, Mirabelle Summers MeetYourSweet.com

Newsletter 9: Supreme Self Confidence Special - First 50 Only

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