By Brad Browning
From The Ex Factor Guide
If you can’t tell for sure if you’re over analyzing your ex’s behavior, then check this out…
The Ex Factor Guide
How to Get Your Ex To Forgive You
Hi everyone here’s another video for you…
It’s me, Brad, a relationship coach and dating expert. The creator of The X Factor Guide, a program that teaches men and women how to get their exes back into their life.
The subject of today’s video is a little painful. I’m going to teach you how to get your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend to forgive you.
I know how difficult it can be to get someone to forgive you. It’s not easy.
The amount of guilt that you feel for hurting someone you love can be unbearable at times, and the amount of time it’s going to take for your ex to forgive you is obviously going to vary depending on the situation.
Obviously, if you’ve done something serious like cheat on him or her, the amount of time required for your ex to recover may be significant, so be prepared for that.
But regardless of the length of time, you need to know one thing…
You can’t make your ex forgive you faster.
You can’t rush it. There’s no magic sentence or magic potion that will expedite the process…
And the difficult thing is that everyone’s different. Some people have a tendency to forgive quickly, and some people hold on to things for a lot longer.
Regardless of what you think about your situation, what your odds are, just remember a few key pointers:
#1. You need to apologize and put your heart and soul into it, really mean it.
I know this seems like an obvious one, but hear me out.
You need to sit down and look into your partner’s eyes and tell them how sorry you are.
Make sure they know how badly you feel.
Make sure the apology feels real and genuine, not rushed or fabricated.
Don’t make it seem like you’re only saying it so you can get your ex back. It needs to be real, so show your regret and show that you’re very sorry.
Your apology needs to come directly from your heart because you mean it.
#2. Don’t apologize too much
You need to apologize a few times to start depending on what you’ve done wrong, but that’s where the bad words end.
Sometimes, when somebody hurts you, the last thing you want to hear again is I’m sorry over and over.
So apologizing once or twice (but really meaning it) is a lot more powerful than a million I’m sorry text messages or whatever it is.
So don’t overdo it.
#3. Allow your ex to ask you questions
Your ex probably wants to know of the details of why you did what you did. Allow him or her to ask you anything they want about what happened.
Tell them succinctly and honestly, but always make sure that you have an undertone of regret.
Helping your ex understand the situation might lessen the blow a little bit.
#4. Don’t just say things, Do things
You know the old cliche, “actions speak louder than words” and “talk is cheap” this is all true.
You need to rebuild the trust and love that your ex once had with you, and you can’t simply do that by just saying a few words.
You have to take action.
If this means buying flowers or giving your man a massage, then do it, if it means being supportive emotionally through this difficult time, do it.
#5. Give your ex some space if they need it
Sometimes your ex will tell you to just get out. And at that point, don’t linger, just get out of there. You’ve said everything you needed to say.
And now, your ex needs some time alone to process the information – and that’s that’s a good thing.
You don’t want to be around your ex when he or she’s angry at you. It’ll only make things worse.
Sometimes giving each other space is the best way to get your ex to forgive you.
#6. Promise you won’t ever do it
Again, you need to promise that this won’t happen to your ex ever again. I know it’s not really shocking advice but it has to be said.
But here’s the kicker, you need to keep that promise.
If you want to learn the full method of how to get your ex to forgive you for everything you feel like you’ve done wrong, and hopefully come back to you as well, check this out…
It’s jam-packed with juicy information!