If you’ve ever wondered why some women get all the dates and others come up empty, we’re here to fill you in on a simple trick to get guys looking in your direction.
Let me start by asking you a quick question: Who says you need to wait for him to come over?
A lot of women overlook the fact that they can take an ACTIVE role in the attraction process, especially when it comes to showing signs of interest.
If you really like someone, there’s nothing wrong with meeting him halfway!
(Of course, you don’t want to make it TOO EASY for him, but a little effort on your part is OK!)
Sometimes, you don’t have to wait for a guy to be interested in you. Why not practice an attitude that says, “Come and talk to me!”?
For all you know, that guy you like just needs a little encouragement to get the ball rolling. Don’t bother with the ice princess routine if you’re into him; drop subtle hints to get his attention.
Here are a couple of ideas:
- Look at him! Don’t act like a freak and stare at the guy – a few, short quick glances his way works best (for best results, add a smile!).
- Be mindful of your facial expressions. Does your face tell guys you want them to talk to you, or is it keeping them away? A fun, playful expression on your face will increase your approachability.
Another way to get him interested is by purposely being in his “radar”. How? Well, by walking up to him and starting a conversation, silly!
This may sound like earth-shattering news to a lot of women out there, but quality guys appreciate a girl who makes just enough effort to be noticed.
And by “making just enough effort”, I mean going out of your way to talk to him – but keeping the chit-chat light and casual. Let him fill his side of the conversation.
Obviously you like him, so there’s no need to actually tell him that. Be friendly, high-energy and humorous.
The last part is especially important. Guys are likely to be interested in a girl who isn’t afraid to have a fun, light-hearted conversation and have a few laughs.
This is what’s known as FLIRTING. It doesn’t have to involve double entendres or directly telling a guy how hot he is. That approach is way too HEAVY for a guy, especially in the beginning.
Rather, it’s about being playful in a good-spirited way to let him know that you don’t take yourself seriously. Although you like him, don’t give him the impression that your objective is to make him like you.
You’re just in the moment, having fun with someone without pressuring him with any expectations. Remember, a needy vibe drives men away.
To really seal the deal, let me offer you one last bit of advice: look your best!
Don’t worry, I’m not asking you to look perfect. All I’m saying is that you should work with what you have.
In the long run, having a great personality and attitude towards life is what really counts. But let’s face it, the first stages of attraction take place on a VISUAL level.
So, take the time to show the world that you “have it together”. The fact that you actually care about looking your best bears a lot more weight than meeting stereotypical standards of beauty (i.e. looking like a Photoshopped magazine cover!).
Working out, eating right, and choosing clothes that accentuate your frame will help you as you approach guys. This is also important because on a subconscious level, it tells guys that you value yourself enough to be at your most fabulous.
Here’s a simple truth: It’s your life, so you don’t have to wait for something great to happen – make it happen! No one else is going to do it for you.
Quality guys are out there, and they’re not going to run out anytime soon. YOU have the power to become the woman that guys want to be around!
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