How To Get a Man

It’s not rare for a woman to find herself trapped in a situation where she’s seriously attracted to a guy who doesn’t share the same feelings for her.

Worse, it feels like she doesn’t know how to get a man because the guy she’s crushing on doesn’t see her as anything more than a platonic friend.

It definitely sucks to deal with a guy who’s totally oblivious to the feelings you have for him!

In cases like these, a girl isn’t left with a whole lot of options. She can either choose to give Mr. Clueless a little nudge, hoping that he gets the hint…

…or she can simply walk away and look elsewhere if he’s just not into her.

Here’s a sensible tip on how to get a man: don’t start off as friends to begin with!  Sure, you can be friendly at the beginning and you don’t have to be overtly romantic right from the get-go.

At the very least however, his mind needs to be in the general direction of romance.

When his thoughts are along the lines of “I wonder if I should ask her out?” or “Let’s see where this goes…”, his curiosity will keep him chasing after you.

If you waste your time carrying a torch for a guy who clearly isn’t going to return your affections, then you’ll be closing your door to an abundance of opportunities out there!

Stop hoping that he’ll suddenly come to his senses and sweep you off your feet and move on instead.

If you want to avoid suffering the same fate with another guy, you’ll need to work on building a sense of tension as early as possible.  In order to do this, it’s vital to play up your most feminine and flirtatious side.

A good way to project this kind of attitude is to feel at ease with yourself, which in turn is brought about by self-confidence.  If you want to have this deep-down level of assurance, work on looking clean, fresh, and smart at all times.

You never know when opportunity will come knocking. For your own peace of mind, don’t forget to take care of yourself at all times.  Not only will you benefit from looking good (never a bad thing), you’ll achieve that fun and relaxed aura that guys love!

Let me share another thought on how to get a man: don’t expect any sparks to occur if you’re not going to take an active role in the attraction process!

Don’t be afraid to drop a few flirty hints to send him a clear (but classy) signal that you’re not interested in being just friends.

There’s a wealth of positive non-verbal cues you can employ, such as taking the opportunity to touch his forearm, shoulder or hand a few times (just a few!) or flashing him a smile every now and then.

Also, being a good flirt doesn’t have to entail crude jokes with double meanings, but rather the ability to make someone feel good with a sincere and well-placed compliment.

In summary, getting a guy to fall for you begins with introducing some romantic interest right from the start.  You can’t hope to generate any real attraction by just sitting back and hoping for the magic to happen.

You need to get off your pretty little behind and inspire action from your guy by clueing him in on how you really feel!

Otherwise, you’ll waste away, silently suffering like all those other girls who didn’t do anything to keep themselves from falling into that dreaded “platonic friends” zone!