How Women Attract Men
If you doubt the fact that average-looking women attract men, just take a look around you. There are plenty of ordinary women out there who don’t seem to stand out any more than the rest of the pack. Yet, you’ll find them walking down the street with a head-turning, less-than-average Joe!
“She’s obviously onto something I’m not,” you might tell yourself.
However, attracting a quality guy isn’t something you’re necessarily born with – those who don’t have the benefit of a flawless physique (read: the majority of the female species) are very much capable of being in a fulfilling relationship with a hot man!
Any woman with the right frame of mind can keep a guy captivated and inexplicably drawn to her. While physical appearance is important in the “taking-care-of-yourself-without-being-vain” kind of context, looks in general are only the beginning.
I’m not saying being drop-dead gorgeous isn’t an advantage (duh), but that only serves to capture a man’s momentary attention at best. Without some serious substance to back it up, a woman risks being written off as just another pretty face!
Besides, physicality is meant to change over the years, and what you project from the inside will last much longer than any external attribute. That’s why you’ll have rely on something more constant, such as a rock-solid character that speaks of self-assurance.
But where in the world do you get this confidence from? Well, it starts with realizing that the chief source of validation in your life should be none other than yourself.
No one else can provide the fulfillment you need to be happy and content with who you are. To some extent, “selfish” women attract men easily because they love themselves first and foremost.
However, I’m not referring to the traditional connotation of selfishness. Rather, I’m advocating for women to be selfish ONLY in the specific context of placing value on themselves and maintaining a sense of dignity at all times.
It’s from this type of thinking that true irresistibility begins. When you love yourself just enough, you take care of yourself by working out, being up to scratch on hygiene, having a sense of style that suits you, and so on.
Indeed, being selfish in this particular way will send your attraction levels through the roof!
So what I’m really getting at here is that women attract men by creating a rich and well-rounded life for themselves. It simply makes a girl infinitely more fascinating and worthwhile to know.
Most of all, a passionate approach to living will give guys that “What makes her tick?” kind of vibe that they’ll find impossible to ignore!
Having a lot of stuff going on in your day-to-day existence is appealing because it implies that you have a lot to offer as a partner and as a woman in general. Not only does it make you more exciting, it makes a guy want to be part of your interesting life.
When guys start picking up on this, watch out. Pretty soon, the only problem you’ll have is choosing among a handful of potential partners!