How To Get a Guy To Like You

Do you know how to get a guy to like you?  Unfortunately, a lot of women are inclined to answer in the negative when they could in fact, be as drop-dead attractive as the next girl!

To some ladies, getting a man to think of them in a romantic light is an elusive mystery with no solution in sight.  However, all it really takes is the right kind of attitude to get a guy’s attention and encourage his desire to know you better.

By nature, men are hunters in the various contexts of their lives.  They have a natural drive to achieve a certain goal, whether it’s getting that promotion at work or winning you over during a date.

Having said that, this is how to get a guy to like you: trigger his built-in capacity for pursuit, and he’ll be coming your way without having to break a sweat!

But how do you get a man to chase after you?  That isn’t a complicated matter either.

You can start making yourself the pursuable “prey” by getting your personality on the right track.  To start off, a woman will increase her likeability if she can like herself first!

Let’s pretend that you were on a date with a new guy last night and you’re now hanging by the phone, waiting for him to call you back.  Unable to stand the suspense, you send him a barrage of email, text messages and voicemails.

By not leaving any room for longing or mystery, you’re not only sapping the tension out of the equation – it also diminishes your dignity somewhat.

I say this because acting too clingy or needy says a lot about a woman’s self-confidence.  You have to understand that a quality guy is looking for someone who places value on herself and is sassy when it comes to the various aspects of her life.

In other words, you need to maintain a good sense of self-respect in order for guys to treat you the same way.  Approaching things this way forms a solid basis for real attraction, and not just fleeing infatuation.

Sometimes, you need to let a guy know (in subtle and classy ways) that you’re not going to take any crap from him.  Ironically, a man is more likely to chase after you once he realizes that your life was great before he came along.

Men love a challenge, so being too much of an emotional pushover gives him no incentive to pursue you.  They’re absolutely thrilled by the push-pull dynamic of sexual tension, which is why you need to leave a little space for intrigue.

Without this healthy amount of curiosity (i.e. “Is she or isn’t she into me?”), he’ll abandon the pursuit too soon.  This is where all the “I’ll-call-you-but-I-really-won’t” type of flaky behavior comes from.

So remember, getting a guy to like you is done by resisting the temptation to lay all of your cards on the table.  Most of all, don’t fall into the trap of putting your heart in a guy’s hands too soon.

You don’t want to drive him away by expecting such a responsibility out of him! The more engaged you are with your life as a whole, the less chance he’ll take you for granted.