Have you finally found a girl you really click with, and are thinking about your future together?
Do you like the sound of your last name at the end of her name?
Today we’re going to be delving into how to tell if you’re truly ready for marriage, and whether the girl you’re with is really The One.
Because as has been shown in surveys, a guy’s decision to marry is usually based around half on finding the right woman, and half on feeling like he is ready to settle down.
Relationship break ups are a part of life. Chances are, you’ve gone through at least one of these in your time.
But here’s where things can get messy: what kind of relationship can you have with your ex following a break up? Is it okay to be ‘friends’? Or does the tie need to be cut completely?
Being friends with your ex may seem like the best option, but in reality, this may be doing more harm for you than good – especially if you are trying to meet someone new.
One of the things that guys often ask us is how to get a girl to desire you and want to sleep with you… WITHOUT coming across as a player or a jerk.
Are you in this boat?
You may have made it through the first few dates with a woman you really like, but want to know how to turn up the heat and take things to the next step.
As a relationship consultant, one common confession I hear from women is:
“I wish my man would be more romantic”.
They explain that their man is just not interested in ‘silly romance’, and that he seems to take the relationship for granted.
But the interesting thing is, usually when I interview the male partners of these women, I hear:
“I really want to be more romantic and show her I love her – I just don’t know what to do. I’m scared of screwing it up”.
It’s a common problem for guys to present themselves in a way that automatically lowers women’s perception of them.
Most men don’t even realize that they’re doing this because a lot of these behaviors happen unconsciously.
But women pick up on these things like a hawk spotting its prey from a mile away.
So maybe you’ve browsed through the web or checked out your local bookstore in hopes of finding the best way to talk to women.
Then you came across a bunch of material that’s supposed to make the ladies fall for you with just a few choice lines.
Well, I’ve been there before and tried it out myself when I was still new to the dating scene.
Does the thought of attending any kind of social gathering fill with you with dread? Do you get this irrational fear of saying or doing the wrong thing and ending up looking like a clown?
Maybe you’d rather blend in with the crowd than stand out. Maybe you’re the type who’s more comfortable kicking back and let everyone else do the mingling.
I get that. Most guys have felt that kind of anxiety at one point or another, so I totally appreciate what it’s like to want to camouflage yourself…
Let’s play a little statistics game. What do you think would be the ratio of the number of women you talk to successfully against those who turn you down?
For me, it was roughly 1 out of 10 when I first started out. Yes, it was a sad time, but I slowly tipped the scales in my favor as I gained more experience and got more confident.
So don’t beat yourself up if you’re having your fair share of cold shoulders – that’s just part of the game.
So far, we’ve been talking a lot about meeting women and going out with them. But what happens after successfully applying the principles you’ve learned and actually ending up in a relationship with a girl?
Do you just kick back and let the chips fall where they may? The hardest part is over, right?
When it comes to attracting women, a lot guys have NO CLUE how to create attraction in the first place.
Having a conversation is one thing, but using the power of your words to spark her interest is a whole other ball game. That’s why so many men can’t figure out why they’re falling flat on their faces and end up getting brushed off.
Instead, women are flocking towards guys who skip the boring conversational stuff and create sexual tension right under their radars.