The good news about learning how to get a girl to like you is that you can do it in simple but highly effective ways. What’s even better is that you don’t have to become someone else to be more attractive!
The REAL secret to getting your inner game sorted out is good old-fashioned practice. Giving yourself enough opportunities to refine your attraction-building skills is the ticket to a bustling love life.
But what things should you make a habit out of anyway? Well, it’s all about starting things off on the right foot.
And by that, I mean NOT trying to imitate her female friends because that path only ends in frustration. Don’t get me wrong, there’s certainly nothing wrong with being a woman’s friend.
It’s just that presenting yourself as such is NOT the same as being a potential lover! Maybe with a lot of effort (and silent suffering), you can transition from being a friend to something else…but don’t hold your breath pal!
Instead, save yourself the hassle of convincing her by getting things right at the very beginning!
So playing the nice guy will only tip the scales of power in her favor. Instead, you need to joke around and drop subtle hints of your true feelings for her.
By being playful and flirty with a woman, your relaxed demeanor will put her at ease. Furthermore, it ALSO plants the seeds of doubt as to whether you’re just a friendly guy…or GASP, might be INTO HER.
This is a basis for solid chemistry! Remember, a lot of jokes are half-meant. Use this to your advantage and turn up the humor.
If there was ever a set of rules on how to get a girl to like you, it would state that laughter is a non-negotiable part of the courtship process. Any doctor will testify that humor is a great anti-depressant.
It’s free and you can have much of it as you can!
A lighthearted and tasteful sense of humor is guaranteed to make a woman feel good. The cool thing about it is that she’ll naturally link those positive feelings to your presence.
At the same time, she’ll be wondering the whole time if you’re just messing around or if there’s something more to giving her a “hard time”. Leaving a little room for mystery fuels a serious amount of ROMANTIC curiosity in the air.
And you can’t do this by volunteering to be a woman’s counselor or her shopping partner. Those roles are reserved for her gal pals, not you.
A good way to avoid this direction is by NOT being afraid to disagree with her and having an opinion of her own. A woman’s friend is predisposed to pleasing her even though they may not have the same take on things.
But not you – you’re free to have your own thoughts and perspective on life. This is way more attractive than blindly agreeing to every little thing she says. After all, you’re there to provide excitement and intrigue – NOT act like her clone!